Major mindfulness decision, is my wife and I are planning 2 trips for the coming months, #1 short 5 day to Utah Zion Bryce area, #2 longer 2-3 week to Asia. So while we receive some insights from our trip last month with the 11 month year old infant, we know we have much to plan, to consider, and to be mindful about, such as "How is the Little Guy going to feel?", "Is he going to get his regular rest?", "Will he adjust?", "Although he loves being outside, but will he enjoy any of this? Because he most likely will not remember any of it", or "Are we just being selfish?"