How challenging this can be for me but its something I have started to force myself to believe, because deep down I know its true.
My relationship with my 'other half' (I dislike that term, so partner) has become a lot better. A lot better since I changed my 'perception' about everything. I no longer look at him here to serve and love me, but rather that I was sent here to love him. He is need of love and God has placed me in his life to love him. So I will.
As a course in miracles says .... "The only thing lacking in any situation is what you are not giving and withholding". I will no longer hold back love. I will give it, unconditionally always, and I know it will return xox