I just lost my stepson last week. He was 37. I had been with him for 9 years and two years ago, when his father died, I became his guardian.
Rodney had down syndrome and was delightful. Today is his memorial service and we plan to have some readings along this very theme. It reminds me of how lucky we were that Rodney taught us this in person.
I wrote a poem for him, that I'll read at the service and then we're going to listen to the Beach Boys and have root beer floats (two of his favorite things). Thank you for this.
Ten Things to Live By As Taught by Rodney
Throw back your head and enjoy life
Laugh until the tears come
Dance while the music is playing
Give hugs to anyone who needs one
Taste everything good
Cuddle the animals
Never pass up an opportunity for a friend
Smile really big
Remember to say you're sorry
AND YES, ENJOY LIFE!
Rodney had down syndrome and was delightful. Today is his memorial service and we plan to have some readings along this very theme. It reminds me of how lucky we were that Rodney taught us this in person. I wrote a poem for him, that I'll read at the service and then we're going to listen to the Beach Boys and have root beer floats (two of his favorite things). Thank you for this.
Ten Things to Live By As Taught by Rodney
Throw back your head and enjoy life
Laugh until the tears come
Dance while the music is playing
Give hugs to anyone who needs one
Taste everything good
Cuddle the animals
Never pass up an opportunity for a friend
Smile really big
Remember to say you're sorry
AND YES, ENJOY LIFE!
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- Posted by Carol V
- Jun 5, 2013
- Comments (27)
Readers Comments
jsmc10 wrote: It really sounds like he made a positive impact on the world aswell as your hearts. His things to live by are so very true aswell :)
diane wrote: Thank you i lost my brother almost a year ago, i miss him so much but your words help. I will hold these words dearly!
Blessed2BKind wrote: Thanks for sharing, i like that you celebrated his life by having two of his favorite things. Root beer floats and listening to the beach boys. What a wonderful idea.
petroskryf wrote: This is indeed a huge life lesson. Thank you for sharing rodney with us.
ajit rastogi wrote: Wonderful feeling while reading it. I too have a son with down syndrome,35,& i have learned from him how to enjoy life. A look at his innocent radiating face makes things lighter for me. He is happy all the time,no problem is big for him,hugs & loves every one he meets,dances with scenes on tv or music. Thanks for sharing.
Barbara wrote: It is frequently those all too often viewed as "handicapped" who understand that which is in fact real and true. I'm so grateful that the god-ness in rodney, and the truth he shared, is recognized.
shalarx wrote: What a great story!
Chris Moon wrote: Live each day as if it will be your last one for one day it will be. Live with an open mind and warm heart and the sun will shine everyday.
MARY wrote: Very sorry for your loss, it seems the people that give us joy & love are taking to soon. My prayers are with you.
