Readers Comments
sethi wrote: Thank you so much for sharing. " be the change you wish to see in the world ". - gandhi
Sharon Hills wrote: A friend and i are going to thrift stores, especially at half price day, and buying coats for the homeless. We're taking them to a homeless shelter. So far we have more than 40 coats for them, with more shopping left! I told my family i am doing this this year instead of buying gifts that none of us needs like the homeless do. Going to look into the coats for kids too.
Judy wrote: This story, as do most of them, made me cry. I feel ashamed that i am not as totally kind; i am inspired to do better; and i'm in awe that some people are either inheritently so kind or have learned their lessons well.
And to the person who said "you are not supposed to donate to individuals", i am of that same mindset generally but after reading this story, i thought that maybe such a beautiful act of generosity just might inspire that homeless man in some way positive. Or not, but wouldn't it be great if we all could enjoy a few moments of unadulterated joy once in a while? !
Final thought, don't ever lose touch with eric. He seems like a guy you would want as a friend for a lifetime!
And to the person who said "you are not supposed to donate to individuals", i am of that same mindset generally but after reading this story, i thought that maybe such a beautiful act of generosity just might inspire that homeless man in some way positive. Or not, but wouldn't it be great if we all could enjoy a few moments of unadulterated joy once in a while? !
Final thought, don't ever lose touch with eric. He seems like a guy you would want as a friend for a lifetime!
marg wrote: You have inspired me to give to a little baby girl who lost her limps to flesh -eating disease. Thank you eric for reminding us to be generous and give, give, give. You are truly an example to all mankind. Thank you so much.
Norman wrote: U sure made a difference to the guy. Though giving to charities seems OK, i believe there are times when spontaneity is all that counts. Whenever i offer to buy a street kid breakfast, the thought that goes through my mind is making the day better for that person. Various charities exist for these kids but then, who is my real neighbour? Remember the biblical narration on the samaritan? We all can play a direct role in other peoples lives. Eric, thanks for being a wonderful example to the spirit of human kindness.
Bluebell wrote: "sorrycharlie" I agree with giving to charities, but charities don't look at you in the eye, don't give you a smile worth millions don't give you the direct knowledge that at that momment you made a difference in someone's life and every one knows that what really gets to the ones in need is just a a small part. May we the world be filled with Eric's compassion God bless you.
k wrote: "sorrycharlie" has a point,( about giving money wisely, and to get the most good out of your gifts, monetary and otherwise) and I have two ways of looking at it - one is, when you give someone money, you give a gift and then it becomes theirs, to do what they want with it. when you hand over that money (usually) or gift, then you don't have any more control over it, and should not set conditions on its use. aren't the poor and downtrodden entitled to the same escapist choices that the rest of us are? if he wants to buy beer with your gift, well, it's his money now and he can do it. and when one gives money to a hungry stranger, one has to remember that it's only a bandaid on the problem. Maybe that bandaid (and the accompanying compassion that goes with it, ie, taking time to talk) will be the start of some kind of real healing, getting back to some kind of existence that doesn't require begging to keep going - OR maybe it will just make that one day a little better. Secondly - I do believe in the greater good of giving through charities, trusting that they channel your gifts to many who need it (we want to hope that is true, anyway). But I believe in face-to-face giving, even just a dollar or a bottle of water (I live in Arizona) And, as the self-congratulatory postings on this site can attest to, this kind of giving probably gives most to the giver.
Ronald wrote: Eric: You have truly shaken me of the chair, i can recall all the moments in my life when i cud have made a difference, but chose the other way. Thank you for opening my eyes. i see it when my younger brother does so much for people without even asking anything in return, and i can't understand, but this story has made me understand the importance of helping someone UNCONDITIONLY..
bharni wrote: What a kind soul! May God bless him
Ebbtide wrote: What a remarkable thing to hear about in today's world of people who primarily think of themselves and how to keep themselves safe and on top of all the challenges that face us each day. To hear of someone who set those initial priorities on the back burner to help someone ELSE first. Wow! Inspiring, truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing this story! We need more Eric's. ;). :).