A Crisis Eased by Friends

--by arajan, posted Nov 25, 2008

I have never been huge a fan of change, relishing stability and shying away from the unknown. This last weekend however, instability and uncertaintly came showering down. However, while it brought unpleasantness, it also made me realize the strength behind a simple phone call, a text message, or a short email.

In all the turmoil of the financial markets, my company, one of the leading investment banks, was bought over by a larger bank over the weekend. Now, it has left the employees of our firm unsure of the future. It feels like an axe just waiting to fall.

I am a worrier by nature, and needless to say these events have left me feeling like the ground beneath my feet has completely shifted. However, since the news came out on Sunday night, my phone hasn't stopped ringing with people asking how I am doing. All my other sources of communication - txt messages, emails and facebook msgs were flooded with inquiries. And so i have to say that these small words of kindness from all these people, some of whom are an active part of my life, and others who I haven't talked to in ages, made a big difference. And my parents have been so supportive and kind, not voicing any of the concerns that I know must be plaguing their minds. I realize that no matter what happens in the coming weeks, I have people I can turn to and that makes all the difference.

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Posted by arajan
Nov 25, 2008
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Tigerlily wrote: I wish I could think of the proper words of encouragement for you. I cannot... however, you have my heartfelt hope that all remains well in your world. :)

wayfarer wrote: Everything changes - but some things are more permanent than others. Like love, friends and family, and they will see you through the troubled times. Let the transient things go and focus on what really matters, like all the wonderful people you have in your life who will love you no matter what.

AURELIA wrote: Arajan, My husband has been through this TWICE. He retrained as a Mortgage Broker and Now look at the Markert! So we may be going through it for a 3rd time. Please don't worry. Should you lose your job, have confidence in yourself, and know things will be better and the excitement of learning a new job will be great. I am happy that you have such a wonderful family to support you. :0) Smile ~Aurelia

makesomeonesmile wrote: Although it may be very tough at the time, every change helps us grow stronger. If anything does happen, don't see it as an end but as a stepping stone to your next beginning!

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