Stories of Kindness from Around the World

Come Out and Play!


--by irongrace, posted Mar 11, 2009

I thought it was rather odd when my friend from the nursing home asked me to motor her wheelchair through the puddles that formed from the melting snow. I didn't really get it, but I went along with it. We were out on one of our walks or what I like to call one of our"weekly strolls" because I stand and she rolls. Adhering to my friend's peculiar request, we were off on our watery wheelchair adventure! We splashed through each puddle together and came out of each experience, slightly damp and smiling. In fact, after a few puddle excursions, even I started looking out for larger and more daunting puddles to sail through until one day we were out on our stroll, and to our dismay, no puddles were to be found. They had all dried up. 

Keen on keeping our strolling adventure alive, we discovered something new that awaited us. As we headed down the residential street, there was a small pile of leaves. My friend asked me to roll her through them and we did like two small children rushing into a cluster of autumn leaves which flew up into the air, softly floated around us and then made their way gently back to the earth. 

It was at that moment that I reflected more deeply on my friend's predicament. My friend had been in a wheelchair her whole entire life. As a child she never gotten to splish and splash through puddles or sprinklers or fly into a pile of leaves or roll through snow or feel her toes wiggle in the warm grainy sand. Her family always instructed her to "be an adult" and as the obedient daughter, she did her best to fit the mold, but I now see that the spirit of the child had been locked inside her for all these years. So, all she wanted to be with me, was a child who was free, free to laugh and play and get wet.

From wheelchair speeding through puddles and leaves, and across lawns, to howling with laughter, and screaming for no particular reason, we were like two playmates realizing what it truly meant to enjoy life, despite the strange looks or grouchy remarks we would hear from those around us who had let the joy of life slip through their worn fingers.

Thanks to my friend, I am now on a mission to find all those children within us and make them come out and play!

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Readers Comments

JuneBug wrote: This is so true! I'm glad you figured out that was what she wanted to do...It was within her but she didn't know what it was like, like we use to do..God bless you, irongrace....God places these people before us for a reason...You are awesome!!!! :)
lovebug wrote: Thank God you know what you were called to do. You are indeed very good at it. Thanks for showing me your smile.
AURELIA wrote: How sweet. You've got what it takes. THANK YOU. :0) ~Aurelia
makesomeonesmile wrote: That is great you did that. It can be wonderful to be silly sometimes, regardless of how old we are. Laughter and smiles are a great medicine!
lmil1954 wrote: Amen to that irongrace! I'm happy you got to have fun with your friend! Keeep it up! Love, Lida:)
merv wrote: (grin) Yep. Can you build a kite big enough to pull her? Or several? Kmart was selling some sled kits cheap a while back. :-) She'll do something that walking folks can't do as easily as she can. (That last is just to tempt you :-)

Have fun!
Merv
hotcocoa wrote: So true! And everyone should do that :)
sethi wrote: You did something for your friend which she shall always remember. " being free" thank you for sharing with us.
tash wrote: I feel in love with this story. Posted it everywhere! Much love
Tristan wrote: You did more than make your friend happy, you also put a smile on my face and a tear in my eye. Your story touched my heart and i bet other hearts as well.

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