For the first time in 2 years, I've managed to be kind to my ex.After the horrendous things he's done and the crimes he committed I kept finding it very hard not to somehow insult him when I communicated with him (always by email or through lawyers).
I've been trying for a while now to meditate and wish him well in spite of it all. I only now managed and started with a very simple phrase 'I hope you are well'. This may sound silly or even mean but I could not possibly do anything of the sort at all. I'm pleased that I did it. Thinking, reading, meditating and living kindness has helped me.
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- Posted by DANCE
- Dec 15, 2016
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Readers Comments
Anupreet K Dhody wrote: Wishing you strength to continue showering love and kindness.
Pigcat wrote: Sometimes it's just as hard to be as kind when you're still married lol but that is great once you forgive somebody it takes a burden off of you
cabbage wrote: Big hugs to you for being so brave and open. You are a shining star and example--thank you :-)
kala wrote: Kudos to you for moving on and sending good wishes to the ex.
Aimee wrote: Good for you! I applaud your resolve and acknowledgement that something seemingly small was a big step to you. It is difficult to forgive those that hurt our soul. I am happy that you recognize the importance of finding kindness in your own journey. Blessings to you!
mindyjourney wrote: Thank you for Lightening your load with loving kindness, my friend...is a challenge indeed, oh, but such a beauty-filled soul you shine!
1sher wrote: what a giant step~ I am still mediating between divorced parents who are now gravely ill - how much better for you now~peace onward
gardengal10 wrote: You found a way to overcome a very difficult situation and I think you found a good way to do it.
Mish wrote: Huge, Dance. Huge growth. Bless.
Rajni wrote: Granting forgiveness unconditionally is the first step to live in peacefully, spiritually and happily as well. I appreciate your kindness to your ex who have hurt you a lot. It is not easy to do so beautiful soul like yours can do it. Always having positive thoughts can bring miracles in life. Expect, believe and achieve. Thanks for sharing this courageous story for others to get inspired.
