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Living Kindness Is What Changed Me


--by DANCE, posted Dec 15, 2016
For the first time in 2 years, I've managed to be kind to my ex.

After the horrendous things he's done and the crimes he committed I kept finding it very hard not to somehow insult him when I communicated with him (always by email or through lawyers).

I've been trying for a while now to meditate and wish him well in spite of it all. I only now managed and started with a very simple phrase 'I hope you are well'. This may sound silly or even mean but I could not possibly do anything of the sort at all. I'm pleased that I did it. Thinking, reading, meditating and living kindness has helped me.
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Readers Comments

Anupreet K Dhody wrote: Wishing you strength to continue showering love and kindness.
cabbage wrote: Big hugs to you for being so brave and open. You are a shining star and example--thank you :-)
Pigcat wrote: Sometimes it's just as hard to be as kind when you're still married lol but that is great once you forgive somebody it takes a burden off of you
kala wrote: Kudos to you for moving on and sending good wishes to the ex.
Aimee wrote: Good for you! I applaud your resolve and acknowledgement that something seemingly small was a big step to you. It is difficult to forgive those that hurt our soul. I am happy that you recognize the importance of finding kindness in your own journey. Blessings to you!
leoladyc728 wrote: This is a tough thing to do, but in the long run it will help you and you can move on with less ill thoughts regarding him
kjoyw wrote: Wonderful growth!
savraj wrote: Oh so wonderful. You are truly kind and strong.
gardengal10 wrote: You found a way to overcome a very difficult situation and I think you found a good way to do it.
1sher wrote: what a giant step~ I am still mediating between divorced parents who are now gravely ill - how much better for you now~peace onward

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