Grocery Store Commotion Turns Into Kindness
--by Modestobob, posted May 27, 2009
"Some people!" snorted a man standing behind me in the long line at the grocery store.
"You would think the manager would pay attention and open another line," said a woman. I looked to the front of the line to see what the hold up was and saw a well dressed, young woman, trying to get the machine to accept her credit card. No matter how many times she swiped it, the machine kept rejecting it.
"It's one of them welfare card things. Damn people need to get a job like everyone else," said the man standing behind me.
The young woman turned around to see who had made the comment. 'It was me,' he said, pointing to himself.
The young lady's face began to change expression. Almost in tears, she dropped the welfare card onto the counter and quickly walked out of the store. Everyone in the checkout line watched as she began running to her car. Never looking back, she got in and drove away.
After developing cancer in 1977 and having had to use food stamps; I had learned never to judge anyone, without knowing the circumstances of their life. This turned out to be the case today.
Several minutes later a young man walked into the store. He went up to the cashier and asked if she had seen the woman. After describing her, the cashier told him that she had run out of the store, got into her car, and drove away.
"Why would she do that?" asked the man. Everyone in the line looked around at the fellow who had made the statement. '" made a stupid comment about the welfare card she was using. Something I shouldn't have said. I'm sorry," said the man.
"Well, that's bad, real bad, in fact. Her brother was killed in Afghanistan two years ago. He had three young children and she has taken on that responsibility. She's twenty years old, single, and now has three children to support," he said in a very firm voice. "I'm really truly sorry. I didn't know," he replied, shaking both his hands about.
The young man asked, "Are these paid for?" pointing to the shopping cart full of groceries. "It wouldn't take her card," the clerk told him. "Do you know where she lives?" asked the man who had made the comment. "Yes, she goes to our church."
"Hold on," said the gentleman. He walked back to his shopping cart and began loading his own groceries onto the belt to be included. "Come on people. We've got three kids to help raise!" he told everyone in line.
The young man looked at the check and said, 'This is really very generous of you.'
'No,' said the man. 'Her brother was the generous one.'
Everyone in the store had been observing the odd commotion and began to clap. And I drove home that day feeling very American.
We live in the Land of the free, because of the Brave!
Remember our Troops of Yesterday and Today !
Kindness is the language the blind can see and the deaf can hear.
- Posted by Modestobob
- May 27, 2009
- Comments (14)
Her brother must have done something big indeed to change the life of this wonderful man.
God bless him.
Thanks for the story, god bless all the people.
Thought b4 we spoke many a time,b)had that kind of $£ to help. But mind you.
Each £$ will help. One $£ is a little help. Getting together to give a £ $ a time. Makes it that difference.
I know,i work for charity. Each penny/cent
Makes a diffrence. In the end!
But isn't it sad that a mother has to live on welfare stamps. Isnt it sad that it is not considered a valued and valuable job like any other.
We are a group of mothers and carers who want to change this and give salaries and status to all mothers and carers of children and elderly.
Thanks for sharing it.