Readers Comments
pluto178 wrote: If everyone we meet out there comes from inside us we absolutely must love them all because they are all parts of our fractured selves. Feel love for each other as I am you and you are me, when we give moments of tenderness to another it is us that feels that tenderness in our hearts. It's great to feel loved x
irishgirl wrote: This is what makes or breaks kindness i think - being able to continue being kind even when the recipient doesn't seem entirely grateful and the encounter is a bit "awkward" as you said, or strained. I think this shows that the spirit of kindness is truly alive in you.
anniejames wrote: It would not have take a minute for you to buy a burger for yourself, but its was really wonderful of you to keep it for sum1 else :) i dunno if it made a difference to wild bill. But it was an awesome act. No doubt :)
EnglishRose wrote: I loved this story, even though wild bill was a little rough around the edges, he will think of your kindness towards him when he is feeling lonely or sad or bitter and perhaps try and be a bit better himself. This has really inspired me thank you very much for sharing and remember that every drop makes ripples :d xxx
jennifee wrote: Thank you for telling this story.
You didn't need to give this man anything.
But you gave him your hamburger that you wanted for yourself.
What a thoughtful selfless gesture.
You also gave him more, you gave him yourself, you spent time with him. You listened to him, even though you didn't agree with or like what he said. After his meal, that he didn't eat quite the way you would have eaten it, you still gave him your time and listened and offered more of yourself in the offer of the cell phone. You connected with him. You were reaching out to the goodness in him and he reached back. Maybe not as you would have liked, but he did reach back.
It makes me think that this is a parallel with us and god. God gives us so many great things some we see as the wonderful things that they are and some things we complain about and say nasty things to him.
Thanks again for sharing. Made me think
You didn't need to give this man anything.
But you gave him your hamburger that you wanted for yourself.
What a thoughtful selfless gesture.
You also gave him more, you gave him yourself, you spent time with him. You listened to him, even though you didn't agree with or like what he said. After his meal, that he didn't eat quite the way you would have eaten it, you still gave him your time and listened and offered more of yourself in the offer of the cell phone. You connected with him. You were reaching out to the goodness in him and he reached back. Maybe not as you would have liked, but he did reach back.
It makes me think that this is a parallel with us and god. God gives us so many great things some we see as the wonderful things that they are and some things we complain about and say nasty things to him.
Thanks again for sharing. Made me think
cabbage wrote: Thank you for your thoughtful post---really insightful and inspiring. Thank you for seeing yourself in "wild bill" and for spending that time with him. Your reflections are really honest and i thank you for sharing your story here. Look forward to hearing more about your journey. Much love and hugs to you :-)
mahach wrote: Excellent
warmth wrote: It is really kind of you to help a person when u urself are in difficulty. Good going and keep it up. Pray for good for u always. God bless u and thanking for your stroy
kate wrote: Johnnidi - often the testimonials in this space irritate me because they are so self-congratulatory; what appeals to me about your story are your thought-provoking comments after the shared burger; i have had somewhat similar musings after giving money to people on the street, etc, but you expressed my own occasional uncertainty well -am i being "pessimistic, condescending, cynical. ? " - sometimes,i have a vague thought that i wasted my goodwill on someone who was not "deserving" - i try to shake off that impression and remind myself that giving says more and maybe teaches more about the giver than the givee - if i, like you, give someone something out of my need - my last dollar that i was planning to use for coffee or a candy bar - and i don't get a thank you, i feel cheated. Now, that tells me something about myself, that i was on the right path when i gave up my dollar, but i detoured when i expected anything, even a thank you, in return. Anyway, thanks for that thought-provoking story; i will continue to dribble my little drops into that bucket.
maumauc wrote: I loved to hear the battle that went on within you before, during and after your act of sharing not just a free burger but the most important gift of your time and interest. That is a gift that is harder to share and you did it beautifully. Ours isnt to judge since we dont know where they are on the ladder of life. You did great and I hope to hear more of your adventures in life. agape'