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The Compassionate Captain


--by MadronaMan, posted Jul 12, 2017
I have been promoted to tugboat captain, and will assume my first command early July. One of the most difficult challenges I face will be keeping morale high in an environment of high turnover and uncertain future. These are a result of our contract coming to an end within a year, when many expected to continue working here until they retired.

The captain has a great deal of influence over the culture of a vessel. I have worked on tugs where the captain was constantly negative, and the rest of the crew followed suit. Except for me, that is! My intentions are nearly always positive, a fact which was summed up as a "good attitude" and was a factor in my promotion.

I feel confident that a culture based on mutual respect, service to others, emphasizing strengths over weaknesses and compliments over criticisms will more than make up for the demoralizing winds we face. A crew with good morale is a safe and effective team. The key is that is must done authentically, as most people focused on negativity suspect an agenda when they receive kindness. My shipmates soon learn that I really am interested in their welfare for their sake.

It's a lovely thing to step onto a boat with crew that are normally quite negative and watch their attitudes shift like shadows fleeing from the light! May we all grow in love from the experience.

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littlegirdie wrote: “most people were heartless about turtles because a turtle’s heart will beat for hours after it has been cut up and butchered. But the old man thought, i have such a heart too. ”
― ernest hemingway, the old man and the sea
Mish wrote: Feel confident your ship will be in good hands and it will be "smoothe sailing ahead" with you at the helm 👍
mindyjourney wrote: Congratulations on the promotion, dear ❤️ ⛵️ 👩‍✈️!!! Leading by example is the only true and lasting way to be the change. You can count on us to help you keep morale high :))).
leoladyc728 wrote: congratulation
Lilijourney wrote: I remember so fondly our sea voyage from Vancouver to Prince Rupert last summer, whereby we saw so many tugboats. Blessings on your journeying on 🙏🤗
debbe530 wrote: Congratulations. Wonderful way to run ship - or any team. Good on you!
splain wrote: Big congratulations on this promotion. you have done well to change them from negative thinking to big positive thoughts.
healingtree wrote: wonderful news, and a well-deserved promotion for sure! You sound so switched-on, I am sure you will make the kind of captain who goes beyond the call of duty due to your strong value system and positive attitude. I don't know you except recently, really, but I can honestly say I am very proud of you and the work that you do. You invest your job and dealings with colleagues and other people with Love&Light, and it makes all the difference. Keep us posted! And may you enjoy many good moments in the coming journeys.
kjoyw wrote: Congratulations!

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