Readers Comments
Rajashree wrote: Mmmmm. Its true we face the same problem even in chennai people have become more and more conservative. We cant blame anybody he reason is getting a seat in a town bus is very difficult and that too after a tiresome and strainous work, we have to travel long distance to reach our destiny and prepare work for the rest of the day and the next forth coming day, hence people hesitate to give seats to the needy.
incognita wrote: You are amazing, i have had the same experience in my country colombia, and giving help in these countries often does lead in falling into adodgy trap or getting misunderstood and putting yourself in danger, it is not shamefull at all to think this way looking out for yourself is as important as looking out for others. Your a great person for recognizing what you should have done, and i sure dont hesitate after my experiences. Well done for reflecting on the situation an sharing it so that we can all avoid this too =)
Sydney wrote: I think it is amazing that you had the courage to share this story.
You didn't help this one woman, but it made you feel so bad, that because of that, in the future a lot of people will be helped by you. So you can turn this into something good.
You didn't help this one woman, but it made you feel so bad, that because of that, in the future a lot of people will be helped by you. So you can turn this into something good.
pass4sure wrote: Thanks for giving good information.
Jane Rokes wrote: I am proud of you for agonizing over this situation. It sounds like it set the stage for great kindness in the future. Nobody is pefect and it is the grace you use to move through these situations that really matters.
eby wrote: I thank god for your courage in realising your mistake, don't give up dear, there is always another opportunity to help somebody. Sometimes, we all miss precious opportunity to put a smile on the faces of the others. Cheer up, just watch out even today, there is somebody in need next door. Let us all continue to make life easier for one another.
DJ wrote: I am glad to know there are people like you, who actually have a concience. My step-daughter recently had an opportunity to help me when i was sitting on the side of the road with my dog, who had gotten over-heated during our morning walk. Rather than stop to see what was wrong, she continued to drive right on by and still, two-weeks later has never asked me about the incident. I have had a lot of thoughts about her doing this, none that are good. Maybe, just maybe, she is also having regrets but is unable to say so? I can only hope. Thank you for sharing your story, it does give me some hope.
gracieliz wrote: I'm so grateful that you shared this story with us. We have all had those moments when we have failed to act. Thank goodness the old man offered her his seat, thereby offering you the eyes with which to see. You will do the right thing next time, and the next, and the next. Blessings.
hotcocoa wrote: Sadly i cant tell how it feels wanting to do something and not doing it. :(
But thanks for sharing this story i'm pretty sure it will encourage people and i hope it encourages me at the time it is needed.
But thanks for sharing this story i'm pretty sure it will encourage people and i hope it encourages me at the time it is needed.
Smitha wrote: 'you only get one chance to help, so when u get it, dont loose the opportunity, as you might never travel that path again'. I am glad u learned a lot from this incident. God bless you! -love, latesha