Stories of Kindness from Around the World

Smile Cards and the Gentle Man


--by Tammychi, posted Aug 8, 2009

False happiness renders men stern and proud, and that happiness is never communicated. True happiness renders them kind and sensible, and that happiness is always shared.
- Charles de Montesquieu

 

I volunteered to fulfill Smile Card orders & my first shipment of “to-be” mailed Smiled Cards arrived on Monday. I was very excited & immediately inspected all the contents. My darling husband quietly watched me, not wanting to interrupt my moment, but I could tell he was curious. I told him I would be helping to spread kindness by mailing Smile Cards to members. “That’s great!” he said. Probably thinking, “There she goes again with another one of her causes.”

 

I showed him all the contents I was to mail, and he mentioned how it was an awful lot to send. “Did HelpOthers provide you with stamps?” he asked. I held my breath, worried that he would be upset when he found out that postage would be coming out of my pocket. But instead, in the most matter of fact manner asked, “Do you think a roll of 100 stamps would help you get started? I can stop by the post office on my next day off.” I had to give him a kiss.

 

Fast-forward to Wednesday.  I’m sitting on the floor handwriting addresses on each outgoing envelope while he watches his TV show. He turns the TV off and asks, “What can I do to help you get these ready?” I give him instruction & we quietly get OUR first 10 orders ready.

 

On Thursday afternoon he drove us to the post office, where he patiently waited with me in a slow-moving line. Since this is a labor of love for me, I told him we absolutely had to get the Love: King and Queen of Hearts stamps. No plain ones (Philately is miniscule interest of mine, you see). “Of course,” he said, “nothing else would do.” He knows stamp choices are important to me.

 

Now, if I could just get my three cats to lick the envelopes.

http://s828.photobucket.com/albums/zz201/anck-su-namun/HelpOthers/?action=view&current=DSC01881.jpg

Here's my teddy bear putting a stamp on a Smile Card envelope.

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Readers Comments

warmth wrote: kudos to u and ur teddy bear :)
Aurelia wrote: You've both been bitten by the "kindness bug"! :0) I'm so happy to hear this. What a beautiful project for the two of you to work on together.
I'm proud of your hubby for being so supportive. :)
Thank you for all you're doing for the sake of a smile and our RAOK.
~Aurelia
Bluebell wrote: God Bless you both. Love and Light and a Thousand Smiles, Bluebell
iferlamb wrote: it's so fun isn't it! I put a little something extra on the ones I send out too. Stickers!!! I love doing it! Have tons of fun.
smiles...
JuneBug wrote: This sis o cool !!! I am happy you have such a suportive teddy bear!!! God has certainly blessed you ...:)
brbruce wrote: Tammychi: as a husband i want you to know that the next time you pray over your husband,in the middle of the night he will act like he's asleep and be thanking god for the gift of you. Brbruce
cabbage wrote: Awwww. That is so sweet. I love to start my week by sending out smile cards :-)
Thank you for joining the gang in spreading smiles and raok's! Many hugs to you and your hubby--you are truly blessed.
Veronika wrote: This is a wonderful story how sharing can start at home and this makes the cards you send out even more powerful with the love you create!
incognita wrote: Aww that is sooo sweet! Bravo to you and your hubby for posting letters makeing lots nd lots of people smile out there! =)
karlyn wrote: Thanks for writing about your experience. I am thinking about volunteering also.

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