Stories of Kindness from Around the World

What Happens When We Give What We Need?


--by luv4all, posted Nov 16, 2009

One afternoon, I joined CharityFocus folks to distribute food to homeless people. We went around a few streets in Manhattan. I was at the office in the morning, a little overloaded with work, and had plans to travel back to India.  Still, I  wanted to take part in this activity in the afternoon.  We gathered at a coffee shop and othe members of the group came with lots of food packaged properly for distributing. 

The first person we offered food to cried at the gesture of lovingly being offered food. This was an emotional moment for all of us and really touched me. After this, the rest of our food distribution happened at a particular place near Port Authority where many such needy people sit. Here the food was distributed quickly with a crowd surrounding us and receiving our  packets. Our activity got over by 5:00 pm and we started back to our homes.

However, I was still feeling the need to do more. I distributed some more stuff that I was carrying. Still the satisfaction was a little less. Hence, i decided to buy a good meal and find someone and give it to that person. i decided to buy dinner for myself but give it to someone more needy and miss out my dinner for the day. This was an inspiration I never had before. But somehow it clicked.

There weren't any beggars around for the next three or four blocks and I was wondering who I would give the food to. I found one but he refused to take food as he needed only money. I found another person, but by the time I could approach him he went away.

But I had a feeling someone would come. Then I found one lady sitting on one corner of road. I asked her if she would like to eat something and she agreed. I told her I would be back just in a moment.  Just opposite to where she sat I found a good place to buy food. I purchased nice pizza and cake. I went back and gave the entire package to her. I assumed she would be  excited and start eating at once but instead she just kept the package and started asking for money. I added some money as well and went off.

After this as I walked home and later I felt a surge of satisfaction I never experienced before. I didnt feel hungry though I hadn't eaten much the whole day. This was a unique, deep feeling, I felt a little uplifted from my normal self and very peaceful within.

This is what happens when we give what we actually need. I never got that feeling by doing any other action and I am sure those beautiful moments are worth any sacrifice. What I got was much more than what I gave.

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Readers Comments

amor wrote: I saw myself the way you did. Thanks for sharing your story. God bless you always
shakeel wrote: Execellent.
LaineBailey wrote: Reminds me of the parabell of the rich man and the woman with a few coins. God appreciated her gift because he knew it was everything she had!
ksham wrote: This is good to help others. God gives us evrything. We shoud also give to needy people. God bless you.
cabbage wrote: That is beautiful---that you gave up your dinner for that day really made the difference in your giving. Thank you so much for sharing that. :-) big smiles and hugs to you.
hapia wrote: If everyone does this everyday, no one will be hugry again. Tahnks for being there. U've just shown a secret
iferlamb wrote: Making a sacrifice at the same time you are helping someone multiplies the effect. I thank you for sharing your inspiration!

Smiles.
Alfie wrote: That was a wonderful account. I've wondered too about how we might be more effective, since we have the willingness. The inner rewards are indeed priceless and the contrast so great!
vsoul wrote: Thanks Madhur for sharing this very moving story. You are right, sharing what we need and not the leftover or discarded, is a leap forward towards real 'giving'. In admiration...vibha
helpinghand wrote: Thanks for sharing I appreciate your kindness and your advice too.

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