Stories of Kindness from Around the World

The Gypsy Flower Boy


--by marccastleton, posted Jun 19, 2010

In 2000, I was on holiday with my friends on the  island of Corfu, Greece. One night we were walking along the main road that was lined on both sides with bars and nightclubs and it was very late maybe 11:30pm.  I noticed that there were children walking along in front of me and I thought, "It is late for children to be up and about," but then I noticed that they were gypsy children, young girls and boys selling roses, or trying to sell roses to drunk tourists and gangs of girls out for the night!

I felt sad when I saw one boy, probably no older than 8 or 9, trying to sell theflowers to the passers by and getting polite and sometimes agressive responses from the people that thronged the street. "Where were his parents and what was he doing out at this time," I thought.  I just felt really sad for him, but then you move on, ....to another bar....drink some more and forget.

A little while later the same little boy walked into the bar I was in and walked around offering the flowers to the people in the bar. He wasn't being a nuisance, he was just asking; I declined and the boy moved on to the next table. Just as the boy was leaving the bar the barman snatched the roses off the boy and tore them up! The boy looked stunned and then stared at the barman with a look that I have never seen from a child and I hope I never have to see again! The barman thought it was funny at first but the boy just stared at him and he stopped laughing and tried to give the boy some Coca Cola.  The boy just ignored the drink and looked at the barman with a look that was far too old and spoke of the hard life he must have had.

The boy then picked up what was left of the flowers in his bucket and made his way out of the bar.  I thought, "He is going to be in trouble now.  He may come back without the money and may get beaten."  So, I got up and followed the lad out of the bar, tapped him on the shoulder and put a 20,000 drachma ($50) note in his hand.  He just looked at me gobsmacked and then I turned and walked back into the bar sat down and took a drink of my beer and smiled to myself. Maybe in that moment the boy realised that not everyone was cruel and I wonder sometimes if he remembers the stranger who paid for the ripped flowers? But it doesn't matter because I remember and it still makes me smile!!

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Readers Comments

heartofflesh wrote: You did a great job! You action,in a small way must have prevented the little boy from joining some criminal gangs and taking revenge on the society that had stolen their innocence.
Yes, you are an angel sent to comfort a little boy.I am sure you made a difference.

"As one person I can not change the world but I can change the world of one person."
DebraE wrote: Thanks for sharing your awesome story. 10 years later, your words made me feel as if it were yesterday. !


I will have to admit that i looked up the word. 'godsmacked'.

Wiktionary: gobsmacked
1 . (chiefly british, slang) flabbergasted, astounded, speechless. I figured that is the point you intended to make. I had a teacher many years ago in school who said to always look up the definition of a word you don't know, it just might change the meaning of a sentence. Not this time, but it was interesting to see the origin of the word. Thanks again for the great story. !
success wrote: I'm very happy that you acted in the way that you did. Even more important than possibly saving him from whatever wrath he could have encountered that night from family/guardians/etc. , you may have taught him that just as cruel people do exist, kind people do, also.
iferlamb wrote: Beautiful that you were moved to help the boy. I hope your kindness affected him as much as the story affects me. Thank you for sharing
Smiles.
glorioski wrote: Thank you. Well told story. To turn around his experience was a poweful lesson. As success wrote, in essence you replaced an uncomfortable memory with a lasting impression of good will. And it is that goodwill he'll remember and no doubt, pay forward :)
ravi wrote: The response to the stimulus you gave was great. Generally we do not think in such a manner. God bless you. You have played a role in preventing one child from becoming a bad citizen


With regards
Ravi
colleen wrote: You friend are not one who lives upon the earth. Having eyes but not seeing or hears but not hearing.

Peace hope and love. The greatest of these is love
shamini wrote: You are such a nice person. God bless you.
blessed66 wrote: Thanks, for sharing your kindness. It took me 30 years back, when i was 9 years old selling flowers to the tourist in my country. Speaking from experience, very rarely this children experience and act of kindness, beleive me when i say "he remembers you" i do remember the kindness of a tourist couple's kindness to me and my siblings and thank god for them where ever they might be.
trueblue wrote: Is funny the things that stay in our minds, i remember when i was about 8 or so i was at a market, mum had given me a coin to spend. I remembered i dropped it, as it rolled across the cement floor a woman scooped it up and then vanished. When i was young i was sad to lose the coin. But now im in my 40s i think now that maybe the woman who took the coin may have really needed it more

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