Stories of Kindness from Around the World

An Act of Kindness Not Forgotten


--by Seeker, posted Jan 5, 2011

Years ago I was working in our yard and our youngest child Mia, at the time perhaps two years old, was playing near the small creek on the side of our property. She started crying and as I went to her I realized she was being bitten by a large number of bees! I ran with her to a water hose and hosed off bees.  I was stung quite a bit in the process. I then took her inside and put her in a warm bath and called the pediatrician, whose nurse advised Benadryl and an emergency trip to the hospital!  She explained that Mia could possibly have a severe allergic reaction that could be life threatening. I did not ask what the reaction could be and at the time I did not know what it could be.

I scooped up my baby, gave her medication, strapped her in her car seat, and made a mad dash to the recommended hospital on the other side of town. I kept looking in my rear view mirror at my baby and when she started to sleep I was afraid this was the 'reaction' the nurse had warned me of. I kept calling to her to keep her awake. I was quite terrified.

Then I noticed that my hands were becoming stiff on the steering wheel, and my arms were becoming paralyzed. I had been bitten as well -could this be the dreaded reaction? How could I care for my child? I finally made it to the hospital only to realize I had parked opposite the emergency room and would need to transport my daughter quite a distance, and in my paralyzed state I simply could not. A young woman came by and I asked her to please help me.

She carried my daughter, in her car seat, all through that hospital to the emergency room. I know the car seat, with the baby in it, was heavy and cumbersome. I know the walk to the other side of the hospital was very long and time consuming. This was not something she was happy to do and she kept looking at me strangely as I wondered aloud about my paralyzed arms. I was afraid I would not be able to care for my four children, and would not be a help to this baby in need. I'm sure I seemed more than a little crazy!

The young lady left once she helped us to the emergency room. My daughter was looked over and determined to be fine, just hungry and sleepy after missing her nap. The feeling in my arms and hands returned as I calmed, and I realized the truth in the statements, 'scared stiff'', and 'paralyzed with fear'. 

It has been over seventeen years since that day, and my daughter is in college. Whenever I think of that day I am so very grateful to the young lady who helped me, however reluctantly. In my distress I did not even get her name and have never been able to thank her for her kindness beyond the 'thank yous' I offered at the time. I now know first hand how a random act of kindness can reverberate through a lifetime, and I feel immensely blessed. I pray that she does as well.   

  

  

   

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Readers Comments

iferlamb wrote: Wow! I am so glad she helped you and even more glad that you and your daughter were ok!!!
It is a shame that she was not "happy to help". Maybe something in her life has helped her to be more understanding.
smiles...
Seeker wrote: Thank you for your comment. I took her completely by surprise, a crazy lady popping up in a parking lot imploring, demanding help! This was a teaching hospital and perhaps she was late to or from class. I posted this story because I am grateful to her, and I rarely reach out for help. I also want to show that sometimes we only realize through reflection how powerful our actions can affect someone else in a lovely way, or perhaps it takes their reflection. Sometimes a kind act is not appreciated in its fullness until after the person has left.....
sabrina wrote: Thank you for the story.Maybe she was in a hurry to be elsewhere.Everyone has their own story in life. Though reluctantly she did help. So, its nice of you thanking her like this again. Smilesss, sabrina
unknown wrote: Seeker, you were in distress, your attention was on daughter and all your children ... So, please don't be harsh on yourself ... On the other side, years have rolled past but you are still thankful to her act. This is not easy and I join you to thank this angel. Really a powerful post Seeker ... thanks for sharing, :):) deepula.
MakeSomeoneSmile wrote: What a great reminder of how a small act of kindness can make a big difference in someone's life. Years later your story is inspiring others! Kindness is contagious! :)

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