Stories of Kindness from Around the World

Kindness At Second Sight


--by redrady1, posted Jan 8, 2010

I watched a wonderful act of kindess today and also learned a very valuable lesson myself.

My daughter has been ice skating for 2 years and throughout those years, during the 'Open Skate' session, I often noticed one particular teenage boy at the rink. He always seemed to skating quite obnoxiously. I learned he was on the skating rink's prime hockey team. Then reading flyers and announcements, I found out he was actually the 'star' member of the team and thought to myself: "That figures..." I  continued to view his aggressive behavior coupled with a sense of arrogance throughout this time.

Tonight, my daughter began her first session assisting with the 'special needs skaters'. (I am soooo proud of her!) Imagine my surprise to see this boy there, helping out, as well. After talking with the advisor, she pointed out to me how proud she was of that particular boy - because he has been helping out with that program for 3 years.  She said he is her most dedicated aid to the special skaters! And as I watched him - I noticed he was kind, compassionate and interacted with the special skaters so well, they all seemed to enjoy just being around him! He brought a smile to everyone he helped tonight!

I have to admit, I'm ashamed that I judged this young man based on what I saw of him during his free time with his friends. Today, I have  a new-found respect for him and his talent! I feel a 'random act of kindness' for him, coming on very soon!

I wanted to share this because sometimes people may seem one way - but if you take a little extra time - you may see a completely different person on the inside.         

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Readers Comments

jsmc10 wrote: I can completely understand where you are coming from, sometimes people act up in front of friends, bu deep down, they have a precious soul
Spoonerism wrote: Hi Red! I think your feelings are totally justified, even though he spends his time helping the special skaters, it does not explain why he behaves like an idiot on the open skate nights! Of course it is great that he helps out, but why the marked difference between the two kinds of skating events? Love from London!
MakeSomeoneSmile wrote: I love your story! This is a great reminder to us all not to judge too quickly or we may miss something special. You learned from it and that makes all the difference! :)

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