Stories of Kindness from Around the World

Even Difficult Times Can Be Kind Times


--by wayfarer, posted Feb 26, 2011

Good sense might have suggested I stay in today.  There was snow on the ground and we really don't have any money to be spending right now. But, there were a couple of things I needed, so I gathered what cash I had together and hopped on to the bus to the next town (hoping it wouldn't slip off the road on an icy patch.)

Once in town one of the first thing I saw was a brass band! They had taken over an empty shop and were setting up to perform in the window. I didn't get to hear a toot out of them, but I did see they were "busking" for donations. The money raised would buy gifts for local needy children.

A I slipped a note into the collection bucket the woman holding it finished a sentence to another man with the words, "... even the bad times are good." The she smiled at me. I said, "God bless." She said, "Thank you - and God bless you!"

A few steps closer to the shopping mall, I saw the Big Issue seller. (Big Issue is a magazine sold by homeless folk.) I've talked to Gabriel lots of times and I know his mother, back in Romania, has a heart problem. I hadn't seen him for weeks. Sure enough, he'd had another emergency phone call and had rushed to Romania fearing he might not get there in time to say goodbye. Thankfully, his mother, while not exactly well, was back in her home. But for how long he didn't know.

So, we talked a while, then I bought a magazine for way above the cover price. Contributing, I reckoned, towards his next European dash. He shook my hand and said, "God bless you, my friend!"

Well, by the time I reached the shopping mall I didn't have enough money left to buy what I'd set out for. I wandered around for a while, window shopped and people watched. On my way back to the bus stop I counted my money. Not enough to do anything with, but too much to waste. So, I bought Gabriel a tea and a doughnut. On a day like this one I thought he might appreciate the warmth.

He really did!

So, heading home, I could have counted it a wasted day. I'd set out with a little money. I came back with none - and nothing to show for it. But! Some children I would never meet would get gifts. Gabriel's hands would be warmer. I had the happy realisation that my mum was well and only half an hour's walk from my house should I need to get to her. And two people had 'God-blessed' me.

How did I feel? I felt just like the Salvation Army woman had said - "Even the bad times are good!"

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Readers Comments

JuneBug wrote: The best gifts come from the heart....BOY, DID YOU SPLURGE !!!! :)
MakeSomeoneSmile wrote: Bless you for your kind heart wayfarer. Your stories always make me FEEL kindness and for that I am ever thankful. Keep up the great work my friend! :)
Bluebell wrote: With you around there is no doubt that "even the bad times are good" I have a funny feeling that if you look carefully in the mirror you might be able to see your beautiful wings. Blessed are those who share their journey with you. Love and Light and a Thousand Smile, Bluebell
luv4all wrote: Wow!

This was such a good read. Lovely message even when you cant do anything for yourself probably do for others and be happy!

Thankyou so much, this brightens my day!
ahmedspeed wrote: This is realy good thanks
Ollie wrote: You have such a precious heart , god is looking down on you and smiling at you taking good care of his children
momov3 wrote: And i am adding one more "may god bless you" to your experience. Everything we do in our life is connected to something or someone else and your ripples of kindness that day warmed gabriel's hands (something i'm sure his mum would appreciate), blessed children and blessed you with a renewed appreciation for the geographical closeness of your own mom- all because you made a choice to go out in snow and ice and stopped long enough to appreciate need around you. I wonder how many blessings i've missed (to be given orreceived) all because i didn't bundle up and leave the house? Thanks for sharing your story. It gave me yet something else to think about-is my self-imposed isolation doing anything to help kindness being spread in my community or the world today? Keep sharing!
fresco2113108 wrote: I appreciate your precious heart
Charlie48 wrote: Great read and very inspiring. Reminds me to think of ways to be kind as something to put on my "to do" list-and and additional g-d bless you for your thoughtfulness.
sanserif wrote: Some days we may have in excess. Sometimes we might not have much. But, it takes a big heart to give away when you don't have much yourself. Thank you posting such a wonderful story wayfarer. :-)

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