Stories of Kindness from Around the World

A Big Difference From A Child's Unknowing Kindness


--by shahval, posted Mar 8, 2011

This past Monday, I was talking to one of the children, Emily's, mom for some time.  We shared the normal stories of potty training, school, etc. and then she mentioned one of the things she had been struggling with- Emily's delayed speech. She was almost 4 years old and still speaking in only two-word sentences.

I was able to relate since my son had also been a late talker and like many new parents, anything out of the norm, will cause some level of concern. I understood her concern because Emily, unable to always communicate with words, would resort to hitting others when frustrated - a very common response mechanism with speech delay.  That night after talking the issue through with her for a while, I told her I would put her in touch with my friend who was a speech therapist and I let her know that if needed, I wanted to at least lend her a sympathetic ear since we had gone through a similar thing.

A few days later, Emily's mom emailed me with a sweet little story.  She said  that when Emily and my son were sharing the same snack table, my son had asked for Emily's uneaten Cheerios.  Emily willingly shared her Cheerios and my son had exclaimed that Emily was a "very nice girl".  Emily's mum wrote that Emily was beaming that entire day.  Her mom said that she never felt that great before and no one had said that to her, something that I thought was so sweet.  Though small in many ways, it was huge for Emily.  

I find it very amazing how children unknowingly express kindness. One of the many things I continue to learn and be inspired by them.

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keymaker wrote: What a great story! Sometimes it really does take just a small bit to brighten someone's day, and perhaps change the trajectory of their whole day (and hence their life). Research also shows that kids have an innate sense of empathy and while we are often culturally conditioned to lose that connection, I often look to kids for inspiration in being kind!
Bluebell wrote: Lovely story, thanks for sharing. Love and Light and a Thousand Smiles, Bluebell
MakeSomeoneSmile wrote: We can learn a lot from the little ones! Thanks for sharing!
unknown wrote: Shahval, I am sure Emily probably has been longing to be appreciated like every other soul loves to be ... When your lil one shared his part, it touched an unsaid chord within Emily ... I am so glad that your son had roused this internal process positively by a simple compliment ... I am also happy to see you console the young mother and connecting her to the relevant source ... Looks like you both saw someone who's going through a familiar path ... It looks so effortless for both of you ... That is wonderful ! Thank you Shahval ... (-: :-) Deeper ...

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