Stories of Kindness from Around the World

The Christmas Kindness Project


--by chico, posted Mar 29, 2011

 

I am a social worker and substance abuse counsellor. I wanted to tell everyone about my very dear friend and mentor who passed away a few months ago.

I met him many years ago while doing my internship in the county correctional facility. He was directing a program he had designed to help inmates with their drug and alcohol problems. He was always coming up with novel ways to bring hope and help to these men and their families.

One of his favorite events was the toy drive he would run every Christmas for the children of the inmates. He did this for twenty years until his sudden death. As last Christmas approached I decided that this tradition HAD to be carried on, for the children as well as the memory of my friend.

But the file where he kept the names of the people who had helped him over the years had gone missing. I had to start from scratch and with very little time! I started making phone calls, explaining about the project and my predicament. I prayed every night that the event would, somehow, be worthy of my friend.

Individuals, churches and businesses began to come on board and, eventually, I had enough toys to give to all the children of the inmates with some left over for the local community as well!

I run an organization that provides supportive housing services for people with substance abuse problems. I used some of these facilities as "drop" spots for the toys. The clients in the facility asked if they could volunteer their time to sort through the toys and help distribute them.

When Christmas Eve finally arrived I heaved a sigh of relief, thinking I had done all I could do and reflecting on what an honor it had been for me. I was bagging up the remaining toys wondering if there was anyone left who might like them. Then my phone rang.

It was my daughter, explaining about a woman she knew in Kentucky who had five children, one seriously ill, no husband, no heating in the home, and no toys!

Ohh… how could we not?

My daughter and I drove all night, from New York to Kentucky, and those children woke up in a nice warm house with plenty of toys!

My friend’s spirit of kindness lived on that year, reaching all the way to Kentucky!

 

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Readers Comments

smoothsugardoll wrote: how wonderful you didn't let the kind acts of your friend die with him. You are such a blessing.
sathsath wrote: great u are living up the legacy of your mentor to entertain the needies with toys,a proved media ti satisfy childs mind in wholesale.Believe me there is always an balance with askes and giver,in social services.Please go ahead
perseverance wrote: what a lovely one this is
anguyen wrote: The gift of mentorship can never be known. How wonderful that the tradition started by your friend/mentor is being carried on. How awesome that so many in the community were able to participate in donating, sorting, delivering bringing joy to those in need,and of course receiving joy back. How wonderful it must have been for the family in Kentucky. Thank you.
lOVEBUG wrote: It is indeed inspiring to read your story. You keep your mentors spirit of love alive as those he helped get involved with his own special kindness and pass it forward. God Bless you
brighteyes wrote: How wonderful that you had a great mentor and how you are honoring his memory and legacy...he is looking down and so proud....that family, I am sure, is just the first of your kindness legacies for your mentor and friend.
lmil1954 wrote: That is a wonderful thing you did for yuour friend AND the kids! Keep up the good cheer:)
AURELIA wrote: CHico, I am speechless. You gave that family a wonderful gift. Your daughter has learned from your example, what more can you give to the world than a loving daughter who will be as compassionate as you are. ~Aurelia
CharlieB wrote: What a wonderful way to keep your friend and mentor's memory alive. And what a lovely example of compassion you set for us all.
Sajha wrote: Hi chico, your wonderful story really blessed my morning. With kind people like you, your daughter and the man you were honoring in the world, despite the greed, avarice and natural disasters going on, i still believe love will transform the world. God bless you and your beautiful hearts.

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