Stories of Kindness from Around the World

Remembering Why It's Worth Helping


--by Kalooeh, posted Apr 19, 2011

Just recently I had been wondering if there was much point in doing little acts of kindness. So often they get ignored, and occasionally they come back to bite you!

Then, just last week, after a long day of travelling, dragging suitcases behind me, I found myself delayed at a bus station. The bus was running four hours late! So, I guess I wasn’t in the best of moods.

That’s when a woman asked me if I had any spare change to help her get a bus ticket.

“Oh, sure,” I said, more than a little sarcastically. “How much would you like?”

As I spoke I mentally kicked myself for my attitude and reached into my bag for some money. As I handed her five dollars I heard her stomach rumble. This was no gentle, ladylike murmer. This had the growl of real hunger!

I reached back into my bag and brought out a Danish pastry I had bought earlier. I handed it to her with a smile I hoped would make up for my earlier tone of voice. Getting a good look at her now, I realised she was exhausted, like she had had several months of hard days!

As she took the Danish a look of relief washed over her and I thought she was going to cry. In her appreciation she tried to give me all she had to spare – a Milwaukee bus ticket! I don’t live in Milwaukee and the ticket will probably never be used, but I took it in the spirit it was given.

She went to get her ticket and I went back to my book.

A few minutes later she came back over, apologised, and told me she was still five dollars short. I grabbed some singles from my bag – and slipped a twenty in there as well. Of course, the voice in my head told me I was being a fool.

She thanked me and went back to the counter. Again I went back to my book.

Five minutes later she came back again and tried to return my twenty. When I said it was for her so she could get something else to eat besides the Danish, that I was completely serious and I wasn't taking it back, she started crying and hugged me.

From now on, when I wonder if it is worth trying to help someone I will remember that woman. Maybe I really am making a difference for someone.

So, sure, sometimes my efforts might not be noticed, and sometimes they might still come back to bite me, but it’s worth all of that for the times we actually do help another human being!

 

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oldgirl wrote: The fact that you were tired and not in a good mood yet stil felt able to help another person in need shows what a lovely person you are kalooeh.

There are times when an act of kindness does not appear to be well received or appreciated, but i prefer to think that some of the good intentions must pass onto the recipient.
Green wrote: Your story nearly moved me into tears. Now i firmly believe in the kindness that man has to offer. Thanks for sharing your story!
David L B wrote: My name is david an i am vietnam veteran year 1967 to 1968 i am 100 percent just in ptsd i love helping people what irecive in my heart makes it all worth it. Now i find my self ineed ipraid about it an i am a man of god an lead maney souls to jesus an love it with all my hart ive gone through some hard times the last 2 years i am looking for a motorhome so i can go seeking for lost souls. Pray about befor doing may god speak to your heart
Joy wrote: Thank you for sharing your act of kindness. The little acts do make a big difference.
bhanu wrote: Similar experience/s.


Tnx for the share friend.
bjorose wrote: Thank you for the reminder to be kind, because sometimes it is an effort we have to make. And it is worth it


flowerpower wrote: Its moments of kindness like this one that matter. Thank you. :)
Woodrose wrote: Thank you for sharing this story
It was uplifting and inspirational
Thank you for your kindness
It made a difference to me today
Kind smiles woodrose :)
Maryjersey wrote: I loved that you shared not just the good part of the story but the part of you that was tired and crabby, too. That makes the story all the more important to me. Thank you.

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