I was walking home from work on a busy city street with lots of people. I wasn't looking forward to going home and my friends weren't able to hang out with me.
That's when I walked past a homeless person that I hadn't seen before. He was moving back and forth to stay warm, and very gently asking for change. He spoke so quietly I could barely hear him.
Something made me stop, turn around, and walk up to him. All the while anxious thoughts whirled around in my head like, 'What do you think you're doing?' 'You're alone, it's dark out and you're a woman,'
Before I knew what I was saying I asked him if he had had dinner yet and would he like to join me at a nearby restaurant. He said he hadn't eaten and he would like to. So, he walked with me a few yards to the restaurant and held the door open for me as we entered.
He asked for the smallest thing on the menu but I ordered a larger meal and explained that the price difference wasn't worth worrying about.
We had a good dinner and a pleasant conversation about everyday stuff like where we grew up and what kind of music we liked. The whole time I just prayed to say the right thing and to give him the respect and dignity everyone deserves. I didn't want to come across like I was better then anybody or out to fix someone.
I was so grateful for this experience. I may not have met my friends that evening but I met an unexpected friend and the experience changed my life. It will make me think twice in future before I complain about something I think I lack.
- Posted by WingingHope
- Apr 14, 2011
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