Stories of Kindness from Around the World

Trusting in the Force of Kindness


--by toonerific, posted Oct 25, 2011

I printed flyers that said “May you have a wonderful day!  This is a random act of kindness.”  They had hearts on them and a nice pattern (very feel-good).  I put them under the wipers on some cars.

When the deed was done, I started wondering if people would toss them on the ground and then I would be contributing to littering.  Or, I thought they might throw them away and not recycle them.  Because my intentions are pure (or that is what I strive for), it bothers me more that the repercussions of my deeds might not be completely without adverse results.  I think I need to meditate a bit more and just chillax, as the kids say.  I need to trust in the force of kindness.

“Drop-and-runs” are anonymous by nature.  But, I like to think about how people react when they receive the kindness.  I imagine today, people will notice the flyer and get a little annoyed at first, as people tend to do when something is left on their car.  I purposefully did not leave it on cars at meters because I didn’t want them to think it was a ticket.

Some people, I imagine, would see it and look immediately for what it was advertising.  I didn’t put anything else, even my website on there.  In fact, I felt the need to write “This is a random act of kindness” so as not to confuse people.  So, then they might look at it like it had some hidden camera woven in the paper or look around for a TV crew taping their reaction.  They wouldn’t see any of that, still be skeptical and toss it.

However, I imagined that most of the people would see the flyers and it would put a smile on their face.  Maybe some would take them and tack them up at work or show them to others and put smiles on other’s faces.

As I drove away from one parking lot, I thought I saw a lady in my rearview mirror pick up her flyer and stop for a moment looking at it.  I didn’t see what happened next. 

Maybe for my next “drop-and-run” I will hide in the bushes to see people’s reactions.  Maybe I’ll drop in on someone I know like a co-worker and see if they say anything.

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Readers Comments

Loyal wrote: I would be delighted to be the recipient of such a lovely act of kindness! Not everyone will feel that way, but we can't let that slow us down! Keep up the good work!
madeusmile wrote: Don't worry too much... if one one out of ten appreciate it... then they will reach one out of ten more!!! :)
toonerific wrote: I know you are right - at least some of them were certainly appreciated. And, like you said, if one was, the smiles will spread exponentially.
MakeSomeoneSmile wrote: You never know when your act of kindness may make all the difference to someone. I smiled just reading about it! :)
unknown wrote: my dear toonerific, I guess, you may just observe yourself when you do kindness ... Does it make you joyous ... That's all is your power ... The moment the act is done, its upto the other ... Its not in our powers to see all our actions accepted the way we think ... I am saying this because initially I had your same fears ... but any act of kindness has its karmic effect ... It comes from corners where you least expect kindness ... That is the way the universe seem to operate. So, you may enjoy your being who you are :):)
Bluebell wrote: You are a sweetheart. I can see the struggle between you heart and you head ( i have mine too :-) the heart just does it, the head looks for justification, for logic. I found it specially funny when you said you were thinking about hidding behind the bushes to see the effects :-) i could almost imagine you there behind the bushes waiting to see the people's reaction. I had loads of situations in which i wished i could be behind the bush, but then i realized that, the need to be behind the bush came from my ego, from his need to be "gratified" to give himself a pat on the back. Nowadays i just do my random acts of kindness and set them free no strings attached (no hidding behind the bush) i just trust that the universe will do the best possible with them. You are a very sweet soul. Thank you for being who you are. Love and light and endless blessings, bluebell
Hasifa wrote: Its called an "random act" of kindness for a reason you are showing your geninue compassion for someone else's day therefore, you are sincerely appreciated. I am truly touched that you would take time to relay such a kind message i too wish you a wonderful day!
HappyDae wrote: Such a beautiful and thoughtful thing to do. It would have made me very happy to have received one of your flyers. God bless you and your kind and generous nature. Love and peace, hd
missychrissy wrote: I wish more people put happy things on my car, and not the usual business cards that have terrible spelling!
Dragon wrote: Kick the tires and light the fires, problem officially seolvd!

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