Stories of Kindness from Around the World

Trusting in the Force of Kindness


--by toonerific, posted Oct 25, 2011

I printed flyers that said “May you have a wonderful day!  This is a random act of kindness.”  They had hearts on them and a nice pattern (very feel-good).  I put them under the wipers on some cars.

When the deed was done, I started wondering if people would toss them on the ground and then I would be contributing to littering.  Or, I thought they might throw them away and not recycle them.  Because my intentions are pure (or that is what I strive for), it bothers me more that the repercussions of my deeds might not be completely without adverse results.  I think I need to meditate a bit more and just chillax, as the kids say.  I need to trust in the force of kindness.

“Drop-and-runs” are anonymous by nature.  But, I like to think about how people react when they receive the kindness.  I imagine today, people will notice the flyer and get a little annoyed at first, as people tend to do when something is left on their car.  I purposefully did not leave it on cars at meters because I didn’t want them to think it was a ticket.

Some people, I imagine, would see it and look immediately for what it was advertising.  I didn’t put anything else, even my website on there.  In fact, I felt the need to write “This is a random act of kindness” so as not to confuse people.  So, then they might look at it like it had some hidden camera woven in the paper or look around for a TV crew taping their reaction.  They wouldn’t see any of that, still be skeptical and toss it.

However, I imagined that most of the people would see the flyers and it would put a smile on their face.  Maybe some would take them and tack them up at work or show them to others and put smiles on other’s faces.

As I drove away from one parking lot, I thought I saw a lady in my rearview mirror pick up her flyer and stop for a moment looking at it.  I didn’t see what happened next. 

Maybe for my next “drop-and-run” I will hide in the bushes to see people’s reactions.  Maybe I’ll drop in on someone I know like a co-worker and see if they say anything.

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linda wrote: This just occurred to me. I had surgery for breast cancer at the end of may and had been visiting a cancer care partners center. I think i will creat flyers that say trust in the force of kindness and pass this on. Then i will watch for some reactions, not letting anyone know i put them there. I'll let you know what i observe.
tobesograteful wrote: Your story gave me a great idea! I could cut out hearts from colored construction paper and write on them, "may god bless you! " and put them on people's cars when i go shopping, thank you!
amer wrote: Such a great idea - i would be thrilled to find such a message. I am sure many many people appreciated it and got them thinking about why such a message came their way!
Joy wrote: Keep spreading your kindness. It brightened my day just reading about it.
jaydeebug wrote: I smiled while reading it. I would have taken mine home, taped it to the fridge, and shown it to all my friends, asking if they put it there! Then everyone would be smiling. What a fun and kind thing to do. Thanks!
Hasifa wrote: Its called an "random act" of kindness for a reason you are showing your geninue compassion for someone else's day therefore, you are sincerely appreciated. I am truly touched that you would take time to relay such a kind message i too wish you a wonderful day!
Bluebell wrote: You are a sweetheart. I can see the struggle between you heart and you head ( i have mine too :-) the heart just does it, the head looks for justification, for logic. I found it specially funny when you said you were thinking about hidding behind the bushes to see the effects :-) i could almost imagine you there behind the bushes waiting to see the people's reaction. I had loads of situations in which i wished i could be behind the bush, but then i realized that, the need to be behind the bush came from my ego, from his need to be "gratified" to give himself a pat on the back. Nowadays i just do my random acts of kindness and set them free no strings attached (no hidding behind the bush) i just trust that the universe will do the best possible with them. You are a very sweet soul. Thank you for being who you are. Love and light and endless blessings, bluebell
HappyDae wrote: Such a beautiful and thoughtful thing to do. It would have made me very happy to have received one of your flyers. God bless you and your kind and generous nature. Love and peace, hd
missychrissy wrote: I wish more people put happy things on my car, and not the usual business cards that have terrible spelling!
Dragon wrote: Kick the tires and light the fires, problem officially seolvd!

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