Stories of Kindness from Around the World

The Power of a Simple Compliment


--by smilingdaisy, posted Nov 29, 2011

Yesterday I went to our local grocery store. I often go to their deli counter, and I understand that it can get a little hectic for the workers.  So normally none of them ever take the time to smile or seem overly friendly.  But yesterday it was completely different.  I was pleasantly surprised to be greeted with a very welcoming smile by the young man behind the counter.  He never sighed heavily or slumped back and forth (like some of the workers do) like he didn't want to be there.  He was all by himself and quite a long line.  But not once did he act concerned about it.  He just did his job efficiently and acted very kind the entire time.

I was so impressed that I approached the manager, who was working nearby.  I explained to her that I often visit the deli counter and I have never been greeted with such kindness.  She agreed with me that he was a wonderful person and she thanked me for sharing my feelings with her.    

As I was walking away, I could hear her approaching the young man with, "I just got a wonderful compliment about you."  I couldn't hear everything she was saying, but I know that she did thank him.  I couldn't help but smile!  I worked in a grocery store many years ago, and it isn't easy work!  I remember how good it felt when you would hear nice things from a customer and manager, because it was a rare occurrence. 

Later I realized that I had forgotten to get onions, so I had to pass by the deli counter.  There was no one there, except the diligent young man.  He didn't say anything, he just smiled at me.  I realized that I hadn't done a huge deed that day, but that small deed made a small difference to someone.  I love seeing  people smile.  I just received my smile cards and I wish I had one with me that day.  Maybe I will drop one off at the deli a different day!  It's amazing how good I felt after that.  

So, friends, the next time you are in a grocery store, retail store, restaurant, or anywhere that someone is working hard, letting them know in some way can mean so much.  I hope you get a smile out of it like I did!  

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Readers Comments

Judith Ann wrote: If we all went out and did three things nice for someone each and every day, can you imagine what our world would be like? Let's start an epidemic right now!
pattie wrote: I have workded in a deli before. It is not easy. Everyone thinks they are more impotant then anyone before them. When they get to the head of the line they get upset when something they want is sold out and they take it out on the person working behind the deli counter like they are to blame. It is very hard to smile when everyone is so mean. It is realy nice when someone said something nice about you. I always try to find something nice about someone that has a hard job and tell them so.
Buzz wrote: What a wonderful story to share. Wouldn't the world be a better place if more people were just like you.

Myself, i personally enjoy bringing a little sunshine into someone's day by being quick with a genuine compliment.
HappyDae wrote: Such a wonderful example of kindness in action. Thanks so much for sharing your story with us. Made me smile. Love and peace, happydae
bilkis yusuf wrote: Yes a smile can change attitudes and you give some appreciation to those who serve you with a smile, in our hectic life, we forget to smile or say thank you
AnnieJ wrote: That's so sweet! And you got someone else snagged into the kindness chain too - awesome! It's a 2-for-1 special! Lol :)
JaiKarKaur wrote: Thank you for reminding me how important it is to recognize others. We rush about so fast that we forget how powerful each act of kindness is. Thank you from the bottom of my heart
Katja wrote: Bless you for going out of your way! You may of course never know the impact on someone's day. No doubt he was stressed and not showing it! No doubt people in the line were frustrated! But you saw through all of that and went out of your way - you lead a good example for all of us!
smileswithhope wrote: It really makes all the difference to vocalize nice things when we see them. :) thanks for the warm story, and for reminding me to do it, too!
SunshineGirl wrote: Oh, what a pleasant story! It's amazing what a mere smile or compliment can do to make another's day, and how good it makes you feel when you do so. Thanks so much for sharing, smilingdaisy! God Bless you and yours always!

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