Readers Comments
Thaata wrote: Ho is really helping us all in realizing our role in this world and understanding others better. Thanks for understanding the feelings of steve. As for not informing you, sometimes an understanding heart is better than enforcing of rules and rights.
jsmc10 wrote: I'm so very sorry about your dog, i can't imagine what you're all going through, yes, it can be hard to see it from other peoples perspectives when you are hurt, stay strong <3
annjav wrote: It truly is a sad day for everyone in the family when our pets have to leave us. Good for you in seeing that it was harder for steve than for anyone. Sometimes we can grow up a lot in a very short time.
ann wrote: Im sorry for your loss but im not sure that witholding information to protect us is the best idea. This happened to me in mymid 20's when i was living on the other side of the world and my grandmother had cancer and i wasnt told until i received a telegram from my family saying they had buried her the previous week. They did this to protect me but they took away my right to know and to make any decision about calling, writing or flying over to see her. She had been sick for almost 6 months. It took me along time to get over as my gran was my closest friend and the fact her letters had stopped, i put down to her getting old.
yaya wrote: I am sorry to hear of your loss. Thank you for sharing yourself with us. Your courage to let go is an inspiration. Many blessings to you and yours
Mish wrote: We never forget them but time lessens the pain and the good memories remain in our heart. Give yourself time to heal.
JustB wrote: Thank so much for this reminder. I needed to hear this.
Viviane wrote: Thank you for sharing your story. Your mom seems to be as great a teacher as you are a learner. I wish you the best.
diane wrote: I am sorry for your loss. But, i think it would have been better if your family had been more respectful of your needs, feelings and wants, and talked to you about any decisions made to put the dog down prior to having the dog put down. My family has done this type of non-communication for years, and it does not work at all for me. I clearly understand you feeling angry. It is good to see the other side of the coin (as you did), but, your rights were not honored in this situation at all.
moral12 wrote: It was very mature of you to put your loss into another perspective, thanks to your mother's comment about your stepfather "going through that on his own". Having been the one somehow designated (no, I did NOT volunteer) to have our elderly dogs put to sleep from time-to-time, I can concur with your mother: it is NEVER easy to take a beloved pet (who is really a family member) to be euthanized, no matter how sick they are. I am getting teary even as I type this, remembering our pets who have passed away. So, many kudos to you for having the maturity to see through your pain at losing the pet and having sympathy for your stepdad for his loss. My condolences on the loss of your dog, too.