Stories of Kindness from Around the World

One Candle at a Time


--by cf, posted May 14, 2013
I've got this friend, Rachel. She's a bit older than me, with a sort of shy, but radiant smile. She's usually tan, as she loves the outdoors and spends as much time outside as possible. No matter the weather. In the winter, she'll often go for walks outside. In the summer, she'll sit in public parks strumming her guitar, reading, or napping on the grass.  She has the leisure to do these things because, suffering from multiple psychological traumas, she is unable to work. Well, unable to work in a "normal" workplace, that is. Because she does work. Her vocation is 'making' candles.

She buys ready-made candles, usually the slightly translucent kind where the body of the candle will radiate the light, too. Then she puts designs on them by hand, working for hours at a time in her kitchen. She literally makes hundreds--if not a thousand--of these in a year. And then, she gives most of them away. She gifts them to visitors, but she also donates them in whole batches to places or people who will gift them to others.

She loves hearing stories of how one of her candles ended up some place far away, or in a church, or a spiritual center. But really, it's mainly her way of spreading love in the world. Did I mention she lives off welfare? I stopped buying tea candles two years ago when I learned that being able to buy them by the hundreds at really low rates was only possible through deforestation. But my home never lacks candle light, as every few months, Rachel will invite me to take my pick among her candles.


"Are you sure you don't want another one?" She always asks, prodding me to take a bigger batch than my modesty would have allowed me. As a person and friend, Rachel is nearly always willing to listen to me. She'll find the positive side to whatever I tell her, without being naive or clumsy about it. I'm really happy she and I got to be friends. I wish actions like hers-- done with such gentle, deliberate, and kind intentions-- were more valued in society. 

I'm sure there are many people out there like her. Many people bringing light to this world, the way she does: One candle at a time.
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Readers Comments

Mish wrote: Your friend Rachel sounds like a very special soul. My wish for her, and you..... Endless blessings of love and light. Much love to you my friend in kindness.
jsmc10 wrote: she sounds so lovely :) id love to see pictures of the candles that she makes :) maybe consider making a Facebook page dedicated to them? :)
Dobby wrote: Rachel is bringing light to her own corner of the world in her own way. And I'm sure her designer candles bring joy to a lot of people, all over the world. Thanks for sharing this.
Bluebell wrote: So lovely to know that there are people that really are the Light of the world :-) Love, light and endless Blessings for both of you.
Bluxess wrote: OMG, do you see cf, she is doing the 'real' work ... She is a gift and I am sure you are holding her in both of your hands ... Thanks for sharing her ...
FairyBubbles wrote: How lovely to have such a wonderful talent to share. (((HUG)))
denisemj wrote: What a Lovely story about your dear friend that has such beautiful gifts. I'm sure the candles are pretty. Thanks for caring and sharing :)
nora wingate wrote: It is so wonderful be be connected to this sight and to read such meaningful joy filled stories. Love its the best
livinginiowa wrote: Is it possible to order a candle from rachel? I want to spread her light in iowa!
Pat wrote: What a light your friend is in this world!

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