Stories of Kindness from Around the World

The Vet From The On-Ramp


--by pinksmoochies, posted Aug 20, 2013
I was driving from work to my babysitter, the same way that I always do. And, like always, there was a man on the on-ramp with a sign. I didn't read it all, but gathered that he was a veteran and that he wanted to work. For some reason my heart was drawn to his full-grown beard and his eagle hat. 
 
I gave him my last two dollars. Then I paused for a moment.
 
"Would you like some food?" I asked.
 
"That's what I'm going to use this for." He indicated towards the money.
 
"I meant would you like some groceries." Mind you, I'm on food stamps myself and scrimping as it is on $50 a week for me and my son.
 
His face lit up. And I offered to give him a ride. The second he got in the car, he was praising. 
 
We went and I quickly picked up my son. The man said I was brave for picking up a stranger, especially with my two year old. I told him I was "packing"' and laughed. I was, but I wasn't trying to be threatening.
 
We couldn't find a nearby dollar store or grocery store but I convinced him to let me take him to McDonalds. I hate fast food, but I knew this man didn't care.
 
I spent two hours sitting there with him. We laughed, we cried, he told me his story. He told of his years of service; teared up about his wife who had fallen into hard drugs; was sad about having to give up his dog when he fell homeless; told of his interests of Nascar and World of Warcraft. He told me of the little "camp" he had built under a nearby bridge. It actually sounded quite impressive! He had crafted a little "hut" with a plastic window and shelves out of garbage. 
 
He was delighted just to have someone to talk to. He told me that the other homeless people were almost all on drugs or alcohol so he had a hard time relating to them. He hadn't had any real interaction, like a real conversation, in almost a year. 
 
There was shame in his eyes when he talked of begging. It obviously embarrassed him greatly.
 
I ended by giving him my number (he did have a little free phone even though he can't get any other sort of assistance) and told him to let me know if he needed anything, that I had plenty sitting around.
 
I hope to run into him again. I felt so blessed to have had such an amazing and humbling experience. I hope his luck improves. And I would certainly do anything I could to help. 
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Readers Comments

jsmc10 wrote: Wow, just wow, I think this was meant to happen, you were meant to be there to listen to this guy, it sounds like you had a good time :)
Bluxess wrote: Thank you so much for making his days together ... Next time, we all will think differently of a homeless person and gather the courage you showed ... Thanks for showing us the way pinksmoochies ...
Dobby wrote: What a great thing you did for him! Esp. just sitting and talking with him and listening to him. Probably's been a long time since he felt "human". And you gave a great example to your son, too!
FairyBubbles wrote: This is a very special thing that you did, you are an angel of kindness. I salute you!
Mish wrote: I admire your courage & kind heart.
mssmileyface wrote: I am inspired! Thank you. :)
MakeSomeoneSmile wrote: Wow, bless you for your kind heart! I love that you not only helped him but spent time with him. Sometimes that can mean so much more. Keep up the great work! :)
jcdery wrote: Wow, what a beautiful story and gift you gave this man. It is a reminder of how the simplest act of listening can be such a powerful gift (feeding of a different sort). You have inspired me this morning! Thank you!
AMIT MISHRA wrote: Its a duty of human beings to do such type of work, to find god. Ther is no need to go any where. Temple church or mosque. Life gives us such type of moment more often to test our abilities in our day to day daily life. Just like a child play a video game on computer which is pre - programmed. If you solve this hurdle then that type of hurdle come in the way or if you you unable to solve the problem then differentb type of hurdle will come. It is all to test efficacy. Every person has different efficiency so different type of testing to judge him
sabrina wrote: I am so touched that you made time for a homeless man whom people might not prefer to give a second look. You spent two hours sharing -hats off. Thanks ,gbu, smilessss

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