Stories of Kindness from Around the World

The Vet From The On-Ramp


--by pinksmoochies, posted Aug 20, 2013
I was driving from work to my babysitter, the same way that I always do. And, like always, there was a man on the on-ramp with a sign. I didn't read it all, but gathered that he was a veteran and that he wanted to work. For some reason my heart was drawn to his full-grown beard and his eagle hat. 
 
I gave him my last two dollars. Then I paused for a moment.
 
"Would you like some food?" I asked.
 
"That's what I'm going to use this for." He indicated towards the money.
 
"I meant would you like some groceries." Mind you, I'm on food stamps myself and scrimping as it is on $50 a week for me and my son.
 
His face lit up. And I offered to give him a ride. The second he got in the car, he was praising. 
 
We went and I quickly picked up my son. The man said I was brave for picking up a stranger, especially with my two year old. I told him I was "packing"' and laughed. I was, but I wasn't trying to be threatening.
 
We couldn't find a nearby dollar store or grocery store but I convinced him to let me take him to McDonalds. I hate fast food, but I knew this man didn't care.
 
I spent two hours sitting there with him. We laughed, we cried, he told me his story. He told of his years of service; teared up about his wife who had fallen into hard drugs; was sad about having to give up his dog when he fell homeless; told of his interests of Nascar and World of Warcraft. He told me of the little "camp" he had built under a nearby bridge. It actually sounded quite impressive! He had crafted a little "hut" with a plastic window and shelves out of garbage. 
 
He was delighted just to have someone to talk to. He told me that the other homeless people were almost all on drugs or alcohol so he had a hard time relating to them. He hadn't had any real interaction, like a real conversation, in almost a year. 
 
There was shame in his eyes when he talked of begging. It obviously embarrassed him greatly.
 
I ended by giving him my number (he did have a little free phone even though he can't get any other sort of assistance) and told him to let me know if he needed anything, that I had plenty sitting around.
 
I hope to run into him again. I felt so blessed to have had such an amazing and humbling experience. I hope his luck improves. And I would certainly do anything I could to help. 
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Readers Comments

IhanaElama wrote: Great job :) it must have been a wonderful experience to all of you. Who knows how many lonely souls could be reached with such a simple act of kindness. Even more than money/food he really needed a friendly person in his life. So great that you could offer him that :)
Louie wrote: This man could be me or my neighbor or any number of us.

I thank our heavenly father, for your kindness of giving what you did have, especially your time with him to listen, to this gentlemen, regardless of how much or little you gave, god will bless you many times over. You, your child and this gentlemen are in my prayers.

I'm praying that he has gotten the help of a blessing from the va that he also deserves, he served his country to protect us the citizens of it. He deserves to be treated with respect for his sacrifice for us and he is sleeping under a bridge with a plastic window. God bless him.

I'm hoping your helping him has brought attention to this and he is getting the help he needs.
Preeti wrote: Truly inspiring!
Wind Walker wrote: I have many stories like this one everyday i run an out reach non profit for the homeless, disabled, and the elderly veterans. The public has no idea how many homeless veterans we have or that every 86 minutes a veteran commits suicide. Wind walker ceo forgottenwarrior. Org
denisemj wrote: This is an inspiring story! Thank you for caring and sharing!
Jeannette Baugher wrote: Oh. What a wonderful story! I love hearing and doing things like that. God was with you. He protected you. Who needs drugs. Doing acts of kindness like this gives you such a high. I wish more people in the world liked to help others. The world would be a better place. :-)
debbie wrote: Where is this homeless man, there are programs to help veterans. I may be able to help steer him in the right direction. Please contact me. Bless you for helping him out
moral12 wrote: It took a lot of courage on your part to do all that you did for the gentleman. Kudos to you for showing him some kindness, especially the listening (without judging) part.
debj wrote: Blessings for such kindness shown!
Neeti S W wrote: Wow, you are such a good soul!

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