300 Rupees and a Blind Man
--by Raghu, posted Oct 11, 2006
The man’s sons did not take care of the man, so he lived with his brother’s sons. Everything was fine at home, but the man did not want to be a financial burden on others. He wanted to support himself through his own sweat and effort. He could do the rope work for wooden bed frames and knew such a business in Palitana would do well. In order to start this business however, he needed 300 rupees. Also given his poverty, he needed clothing and a blanket or two.
Jayeshbhai wasn’t around, but I offered him what I could: clothing and blankets and then told the man to return the next day.
The next day, I didn’t end up going to ManavSadhna and Jayeshbhai wasn’t there either, but the man returned.
The third day, the man came back, but again Jayeshbhai wasn’t at the center at the time. For three days, this man walked from Bapunagar (across Civil Hospital) to Manav Sadhna. As I looked at the man, I knew I had to do something for him. I earn my pocket money by taking part in Manav Sadhna’s Earn n’ Learn project and that day we received our monthly pay. I reached into my pocket and counted the bills. 300 rupees exactly, not a rupee more or less. I told Jagatbhai (a co-worker) what I wanted to do and he simply told me to follow my heart. I gave the money to the man.
Tears filled his eyes. “I can’t write. But if someone ever offers me their service, I’ll be sure to write you a letter,” he said before he left.
While there has been no letter, the lesson he taught me will stay with me forever. The man had a place to live and food to eat, but he did not want to live on other’s money. He did not view his physical disabilities as a viable reason to burden another. While he was still able, he would live his life with dignity and pride and bear the fruits of his own efforts.
Note from the scribe:
This event also is a testament to changes that Raghu has undergone since coming to Manav Sadhna. Before Raghu came to Manav Sadhna, he was the bully of his neighborhood, getting into at least one fight each day. He comes from a poor family and didn’t work. Instead he passed his days doing mischievous deed. Growing up, he and his friends would go to the temple and harass the beggars. While giving them a rupee and they would take a two rupee coin from their begging bowl. The money he earned from the Earn n’ Learn Project was his pocket money. He would give some of it to his widowed mother to help with household expenses and use the rest for his own little pleasures, of which the major one is clothing. The money that he gave the man was going to be used to buy new clothes, yet in that moment that thought did not even cross his mind. He reached within and came up with exactly what the man needed.
I read out your story to my parents and all 3 of us are quite touched it.
your postings are always very inspiring...It is not the money that matters but to have an attitude of helping others..You definately have one..
Service is not an action but an expression of love...
Is there anything I can do? what exactly is manav sadhna..is there a website for the same..
let me know
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