A Stop Sign Moment
--by twiceblessed, posted Sep 19, 2006
It was one of those awkward stop sign moments. You and the car on the cross streets both arrive at the stop sign together. Both want to rush first but both are a bit hesitant. And then, one person gives in -- usually the person with the faster car. :)
Well, it just so happened that I had one of those stop sign moments the other day. But I had decided to let the other person go and the lady on the cross street had decided the same.
So here we are -- both of us trying to be kind to each other.
I was determined to stick my ground, so lifted my hand and signaled her to go ahead of me.
She gave me the best smile, and I saw an inaudible "thank you" through some lip-reading, and it just made me feel so good.
All it takes is a moment to be kind. Try it next time. It feels good.