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A Smile Card Apology To A Lonely Lady


--by jazzyswami, posted Nov 2, 2013
A few days ago I was sitting in a Thai restaurant enjoying a meal when I got on a phone call with a friend I hadn't spoken to in a long time. In my enthusiasm and excitement I talked slightly louder than usual voice and in Spanish, my mother tongue.

A few minutes into the call the lady sitting at the table beside mine got up, seemingly offended, and asked the restaurant staff to relocate her to a table as far away as possible from this man who won't get off his phone.

I sank in my seat out of embarrassment. I ended the call soon afterwards and felt the urge to go over and apologize. Before getting up I looked around to see where she was and she was, indeed, at the table furthest away from me. Kudos to the restaurant staff.

I noticed that the lady was alone and staring out the window. I thought I detected a tinge of sadness or melancholy and perhaps an implicit desire for aloneness and the peace I had so obviously shattered minutes earlier. 

Right then I abandoned my plans for a conventional apologetic gesture and decided to conduct an experiment. Seeing those funny Smile cards in my wallet I took one out. On signing my restaurant check I asked my server to secretly charge the lady's meal to my credit card and hand her the Smile card instead of her bill. 

I left the premises at that point, letting the staff know to expect me back in a few hours to pick up my credit card and close the bill.

I returned later as promised, excited to learn the outcome of the experiment. Did she take it the wrong way, I wondered? Did she get confused? Did she refuse the anonymous offer? And so on.
 
To my pleasant surprise, things turned out the best possible way, which is why I am sharing this story with you today! 

A cohort of restaurant staff approached me in a stream of joy, telling me that in the many times she had dined there before they had never seen the old lady smile and laugh like she did upon receiving the Smile card and the $0 check. "She opened up," they said. "She thanked us even though we explained that someone else did the job."        

To top it off, the staff inquired about the Smile cards and how to obtain them so as to conduct their own experiments.
 
It was an interesting, fun, experiment which may hopefully result in many more. 
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Readers Comments

Dobby wrote: Kudos for how you handled the situation with the old lady, for brightening her day (and who knows how that will ripple thru her life), for definitely brightening the day for the staff and getting more people on the kindness train!
MakeSomeoneSmile wrote: That is awesome! What a great way to handle a difficult situation. Those are wonderful acts that leave ripples across many people. Way to go! :)
WorldCitizen wrote: What a way to redeem dear JazzySwami! :) A true citizen of the world stopping the arrows of hatred, guilt, violence and resentment with humble service, fierce love and trust in the greatness of humanity and our indomitable collective generous spirit. May we keep reading (and living! ;)) more of your experiments with selfless-service and love.
unicorn.7 wrote: You handle it in the upmost amazing way and you also help out so many lives on your journey of kindness and your life is already blessed
Mish wrote: Brilliant! Kudos!
Many, myself one, prefer no cell phone chatter in restaurants , etc. , so I can understand her displeasure. I try not to use mine in eateries, busses, etc.
You handled it beautifully .
deactivated wrote: that was beautiful:)))))))
man! wasn't that wonderful to hear such a happy story:))))))
Wishing u many more adventures:))))))))I love u man:)))))
it was really nice to hear that the women was happy and that she smiled:)))))))
annjav wrote: My congratulations on making the very best of a difficult situation. And getting a real smile and laughter out of a sad and lonely person, is a real coup! Good work!
jsmc10 wrote: So so wonderful :) I'm glad the experiment turned out well :)
Hasifa wrote: This is what this site is all about, changing lives with simple gestures of kindness. But shame on you for talking too loudly on your phone in the resturant...lol
rash wrote: Excellent job!

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