Stories of Kindness from Around the World

My first ever random act of kindness


--by zjm409, posted Feb 23, 2014
I stumbled across Kindspring.org two days ago, and read the stories posted here for hours. They moved and inspired me so much that I just knew I had to be a part of this. I am a college student and work at the library here on campus, so I was able to print out dozens of Smile Cards and I spent over an hour cutting them all out.

One of my "primary targets" that I came up with during my brainstorming was McDonald's, because the area around my college is economically depressed and I figured most of the people going to the McDonald's were probably strapped for cash. Unfortunately I don't have a car and I didn't know when I'd be able to have the opportunity to do some random acts of kindness there. As luck would have it that very night one of my friends asked me to go to McDonald's and get her some chicken nuggets and another friend offered to drive me!

On the drive over I nonchalantly suggested that we actually go inside the McDonald's instead of going through the drive-through, because it would be "more of an adventure." She said that was fine. The only money in my wallet was a $20 bill, so I paid for the order with my Debit card and asked my friend to wait at a table until I was done checking out. I would have been embarrassed if she knew what I was about to do. I then handed the cashier the $20 bill and told him I wanted to pay for the next few people to order, "just to make someone's night."

He seemed kind of shocked and unsure of what to do and called a manager over who was walking by. I repeated my request to her, and she also looked dubious but said "If you're sure that's what you want to do." I assured her wholeheartedly that it was and walked away with a huge grin on my face. As I walked out I saw the cashier, the manager and another employee who had overheard the conversation all standing side-by-side at the counter looking awed. I was walking on air as I left that McDonald's.

Next stop, CVS, where I bought an iced coffee and bag of snacks for my friend who had driven me to McDonald's and a huge bag of pistachios (one of her favorite foods) for my other friend who had asked me to go to McDonald's for her. I hid the bag of pistachios inside the McDonald's bag and could hardly keep from grinning from ear to ear when I handed it to her back at the dorm and she didn't immediately open it. I walked away knowing she was going to be very pleasantly surprised in a few minutes :)

I did chicken out at the McDonald's register and ended up not giving the cashier Smile cards to give to the people who's meals I had payed for, like I had intended on doing, but for my first act of random kindness it went extremely well and I'm proud to say I'm already irrevocably hooked. I have a lot of great ideas for future gifting events. As I type this it's 2:45 in the morning but I'm still so stoked up and elated at what I did that I'm not tired in the slightest! Giving solely for the sheer joy of giving is absolutely addicting and I hope to make a real change in my school and larger community. Starting tomorrow, everywhere I go I'm going to be armed with Smile cards, gifts, envelopes and, of course, a smile of my own. 
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Brian wrote: Good for you. I felt the same as you when i first stumbled on this site. I printed myself a few smile cards. My wife and i have coffee at a little shop on the queensland sunshine coast when we go to town from our small rural lot. I decided to make it a habit of paying for someone else's coffee when ever i was ordering ours. I did it, handing the girl the card. She said "what a nice gesture, i'll put the card in the tips bowl for the moment. "
We did not get back to town for a fortnight, and when we did, our 3 daughters and two grand daughters also joined us, making it quite an order for the coffee shop. I went to pay, and order an extra for someone else, and while waiting to be served, can you imagine my disappointment when i saw the card still in the bowl. I said to her how disappointing it is that you did not pass that on. She replied cheerily, "oh we intend to"
Need i say how my loyalty to their business has somewhat diminished?
Mary wrote: I can imagine the way the people must have felt when they heard "it's been paid for". It is a lovely feeling to be kind. God bless.
Brian, i hope you don't give up being kind. Hopefully the cashier just forgot to pass the card on.
Cindy wrote: Lovely story. And i want to say to brian - my family has a small coffee shop. We occasionally have "pay it forward" gestures come our way, and we relish it. I want brian to know that it's quite possible that the reason his card was not yet used was because the clerks are waiting for the customers whom they know have very little money to come through the door. The barristas behind the counter always know. And i believe in my heart that their intentions are good -- they will use your kindness to pay for the people who really need some help.
AK wrote: You are awesome! Thank you for sharing your first experience. Wish you all the very best.
Joel Bombardier wrote: What an amazingly beautiful story! I'm sitting far from home right now but your kind actions and sense of adventure warmed my heart deeply.

There are ways of taking small random- act-of-kindness steps, but this was a giant leap! :)
Michael wrote: I've been feeling a little low after an operation. Your story lightened my heart. Thank you.
Michael wrote: I've been feeling a little low following an operation. Your story has lightened my heart. Thank you.
svirdi wrote: Wow, that's so nice! I know, i am scared of doing random acts first but then i rememberee that it's random lol. This is a good story!
Karita Hummer wrote: Lovely! This is heartwarming. It seems like you are well on your way.
Jan wrote: I have been holding on to my smile cards for months. You have inspired me! Thank you. My next drive through coffee, i will be treating the person behind me.

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