Stories of Kindness from Around the World

Giving someone a chance to recharge


--by KingHartuc, posted Jan 20, 2007

Good day,

I was recently traveling and bad weather had surrounded the airport, causing many flights to get canceled or delayed.  I was sitting by the gate, having changed my flight to another one already and was watching the unfortunate airline rep at the gate counter.  She was being bombarded by a number of people who seemed to assume that the poor weather, flight cancellations and everything else causing them grief was her fault and each one in turn laid all of their grief on her and I could see she was being pushed to the brink.

A little ah-ha light bulb flashed in my mind and since I am apt to follow my instinct, I stood up and took my place in the line of people intent on sharing their bad day with her.  I patiently waited my turn and when I was finally standing in front of her, her weary eyes looked up to me, her forehead creased with stress and she asked "May I help you, sir?"

I said "Yes you can".  I then asked her to act busy while I spoke to her.  I told her I stood in line to give her a 5 minute break.  While she typed (I have no idea what she typed), I explained to her that while all of these people were intent on ruining her day, the fact that she had other people in her life that really cared about her and that she had passions in her life that gave her life meaning was far more important than what was happening here today.  Given all of that, the stuff happening here wasn't important and shouldn't stress her out.  We chatted back and forth for a few minutes as she continued to look busy.

After seeing her regain her composure, I knew she had to get back to her work and I wished her a great day, telling her it was time for the next customer.  She looked up at me and I could see that her eyes were slightly welling up.  "Thank you so much", she said, "I don't know how to thank you for this".

I smiled and told her the best way to thank me was to pass on the kindness to someone else when she had the opportunity. 

Have a great day.

Harry

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Readers Comments

bhappy wrote: Harry, What a wonderful act of kindness and compassion. God Bless You.
Becki
KingHartuc wrote: Becki,

Your words are very kind - thank you. I saw it as an opportunity to brighten what had turned into a dark day for the airline rep. I know I would have appreciated it done to me. :-)

Take care,

Harry
Ginny wrote: Thank you for sareing that story. I don't fly on planes that much. But when I go and see that a rep is having a hard time, I know now that few kind words would cheer them up very much on a hard at work.
Strider wrote: Wow a rare thing to do yes you see it a lot people telling tellers etc what they want even in demeanor they say "I want this" or "give me this" even asking "how are you?" or smiling and helping the person behind the counter goes a long way!
ari1969 wrote: Harry, cheers! Hats off to you! The instance described by you can be practically applied in many real life situations we come across in our day to day life. Little by little we shall be conquering this world by the invisible godly weapon called "kindeness".
Regards,
Ari.
KingHartuc wrote: I thank everyone for their kind comments. It's ironic that I am reading these comments at an airport in eastern Canada, having been turned around part way to my destination today because of an aircraft problem. So you know I took advantage of the situation to spread "a little love" amidst the people who would rather be dead than inconvenienced (blunt but true - based on their actions).

Take care everyone and thanks again.

Harry
Sheila wrote: Thank you for sharing this wonderful and touching act of kindness.
Jacqueline wrote: That was a wonderful show of kindness and the reward is kind of two way, because the joy you brought to her would have equally brought untold joy and fulfillment to you as well especially when you saw the look of appreciation in her eyes. I've promised myself to look for opportunities to show kindness to others. God bless you
wonderlink wrote: Since I stopped by, I might as well let it be known that I loved this story as well. Wonderfully creative and inspiring. Thank you!
manju wrote: good to know that people like you still exist

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