Stories of Kindness from Around the World

Secret Santa of Kansas City


--by Nanci Hellmich, posted Dec 25, 2008
In 1971 a young man who grew up very poor was traveling across the country, trying to make a new start for himself. Along the way he had completely run out of money and was forced to spend the night in his car.

This continued until one morning, after a week of sleeping in his car, he walked nervously into a diner and ordered a big breakfast. After eating his first good meal in weeks, he found himself lying to the waiter, telling him he had ’lost his wallet.‘ The waiter, who was
also the owner, walked behind the stool where the young man had been sitting.

He bent down, and came up with a $20 bill that looked as if it had fallen on the floor. ’Son, you must have dropped this,‘ the owner said. The young man couldn’t believe his luck! He quickly paid for the breakfast, left a tip, bought gas with the change, and headed West.

On the way out of town, it dawned on him. ‘Maybe nobody dropped the money at all. Maybe that fella just knew I was in trouble and he helped me in a way that didn’t embarrass me. I’d been praying for a few days before that, and right then I just made a little promise. I said, ‘Lord, if ever you put me in a position to help other people, I will do it.’

Now older, the man lives near Kansas City. Each year he gives away thousands of dollars, primarily in increments of $100. He is known as the ‘Secret Santa,’ because at Christmas time each year, he personally hands money out to those on the street, at laundromats, and at diners. Last year, he gave more than $50,000 away in Kansas City and New York City.

‘I’ve lived the story, so I know it’s definitely more blessed to give than receive, because it comes back to you many, many times over,’ he says. He is grateful to be able to share the gift that blessed his life so many years ago. ‘It’s something that never happened to them before,’ he says. ‘It restores some faith in humanity.   
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Readers Comments

Ann wrote: I loved that story. I think I read about this man recently. We need more Santas in this world!!
Taddie wrote: These are reaaly good stories. They have elements of humanity
sewingsphynx wrote: It's as if the person performing the gesture of kindness somehow understood the young man's plight. The kindness likely prevented an act of desperation on the young man's part. Not only that,his dignity was preserved. And dignity is something that often gets overlooked.
ByHIsGrace wrote: I really love this story and cannot ignore the fact that the store owner "lit the torch" that now burns so brightly years later. Never underestimate the so called "small stuff".
Passion4Life wrote: What an awesome story. It is amazing how one simple act of kindness can change the life of a person and then compel them to do the same for others.
Tedi wrote: Thanks for that wonderful story. I have heard of that happening and it's anon.
God Bless,
GodsChild wrote: I know this story is true. It's happened to me before. I live in Missouri. They announced who it was a few weeks before Christmas, he was in the hospital. We need more people like this!
katlampi wrote: Wow -- this is a great example of the pay-it-forward idea which we are so fond of here on helpothers.org. Thank you for sharing this! I love it when people reach out directly to those who need help without patronizing and judging!
lmil1954 wrote: Ah yes, the ripple effect. God is so good!
Marci wrote: Larry Stewart kept his identity secret for years, but when he was terminally ill he finally revealed that he had been Secret Santa for years. He trained several people to take on his Secret Santa "job" and I've read of several people carrying on his wonderful work here in Kansas City, and around the world.

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