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An Unforgettable Dinner Date


--by Satish, posted Feb 28, 2007

After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said I love you but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you. The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.
 
"What's wrong, are you well?" she asked.  My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news."I thought that it would be pleasant to be with you," I responded. "Just the two of us." She thought about it for a moment, and then said, "I would like that very much."
 
That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at her house, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door with her coat on. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last wedding anniversary.  She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's.  "I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed, "she said, as she got into the car. "They can't wait to hear about our meeting." We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady.
 
After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. "It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small," she said. "Then it's time that you relax and let me return the favour," I responded.
 
During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation -- nothing extraordinary, but catching up on recent events of each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.  As we arrived at her house later, she said, "I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you." I agreed
 
"How was your dinner date?" asked my wife when I got home. "Very nice. Much more so than I could have imagined," I answered. A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I could not do anything for her. Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined. An attached note said: "I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife. You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son."
 
At that moment, I understood the importance of saying "I LOVE YOU!" in time and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Give your family the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till "some other time."

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reshmakurup wrote: Dear Satish,

That was really a beautiful piece of love ,warmth and affection...Indeed there is nothing bigger in life than LOVE and the more you share it with everyone,,the more it grows...
Thanks a lot for sharing it with us..

We never know what is instored for us the next second..Thats why giving our 100% every moment is so very important.
The process is definately important and enriching than the destination...

With lots of love to you and your beautiful soulmate..

Reshma Kurup
Emya101 wrote: This story was a very touching story for me.
MakeSomeoneSmile wrote: That was a great story, thanks for sharing...
AiyaZaynab wrote: Oh my gosh that story made me nearly cry. That was soooooooooooooo touching and sad. That was a wonderful thing you did for your mother. God bless you.
tambu wrote: A truly heartwarming story... Life passes so quickly and we don't spend the time we want to with the ones we love... I am so glad your wonderful wife suggested this--amazing intuition! All the best to you!
sonrisa wrote: Thank you for sharing your experience with us and in the process inspiring all of us to make time for those we love, because like you said, everything else can wait for "some other time."
violetangel wrote: Your wife is a very special person to think of your mother like that.
ieiblue wrote: it's a good reminder for us for those people so close to us yet we don't have time to spare with... thank you for sharing this... :P
Passion4Life wrote: Touching doesn't even scrape the surface. Very moving and heart felt. You brought tears to my eyes. We get so cought up in our daily lives that we forget about the people that are important in our lives. Thank you for sharing. God Bless!
Hope4lisa wrote: Does God move in mysterious and wonderful ways or WHAT?
What a beautiful ending.......for both you and your mother.
Three cheers for your wife too.......

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