A Few Words Can Go A Long Way

--by robbie, posted May 1, 2007

The other night I was at a friend's house to discuss some things about a charity organization we're involved in.

There were a fews of us there, and we were all laying around on the couches in her living room. All of a sudden, I became extremely emotional and burst into tears for no good reason. I was sobbing hysterically, but i couldn't figure out why.

My friend came over to me and hugged me tight, rubbing my back and trying to figure out what was wrong. He sat there holding me for probably ten minutes before I stopped crying. Then he looked at me and he said, "You look so pretty today." It was a small thing, but just because he said that, I was able to smile and for the most part pull myself together. It brightened my day, and boosted my self-esteem at least a few notches.

The lesson here is that the smallest of compliments can sometimes make the biggest difference in someone's life. Always remember to give compliments!

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Posted by robbie
May 1, 2007
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lovebug wrote: self-esteem is what I suffered from most of my life, I learned not only to give compliments but receive them and life has become beautiful

ladycourage wrote: A kind word can alwaz be cherished in any heart.but its alwaz sad when there are people who forgets that, there are so many arms that needs to be held for love and care and waiting for the right person..

MOSIE wrote: Hello lovebug, I wanted to add to your comment that you, as a living human being are deserving ALL THE TIME of peace and joy. I believe it takes a lot of courage to admit that you have some difficulties with self-esteem lovebug. I respect and honor you for that truth, and that your freedom to say that life has become more beautiful.
Wishing you every joy!
Mosie

Aurelia wrote: Robbie, That is true. We all need to hear some kind words to boost our self esteem. I personally try to compliment friends at work each day. There is always something nice to say...whether it be to comment on their outfit, hair, shoes, perfume or thank them for being a good person. It's a small thing, but when I'm at my computer all morning or on the phone with business and feeling stressed, I always feel better after I take a walk through the hallways in search of complimenting. The smile I receive is so rewarding and then I go back to my office a get back to work with a smile on my face. ~Aurelia

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