Stories of Kindness from Around the World

Gratitude For The Kindness Of Strangers...


--by sonrisa, posted May 23, 2007

As I was walking along the river this evening, enjoying some hot chocolate with the sun shining down on me on this nice spring day, I was in the mood to do something nice for a stranger and started to look around for an opportunity to do a random act of kindness.  Two minutes later I was approached from across the pathway by a complete stranger.  I wasn't sure why he was approaching me, when from out of nowhere he started talking to me really aggressively and harrassing me.  I could tell he was probably drunk or high or who-knows-what so I just stayed calm and kept walking ahead.  There were hundreds of people sitting on benches nearby and walking along the South Bank with me, so I wasn't really worried. 

As I tried to walk along he kept saying offensive things to me and trying to get my attention.  I tried to change my course and he kept following me, coming closer each time, and just wouldn't leave me alone.  At one point, he literally cornered me near the rail next to the river at which point I got really scared and didn't know what to do.  Although there were people everywhere, I got worried that the bystander effect might kick in and nobody would do anything about what they were seeing.  I was praying that one of the many people sitting on benches nearby who could hear everything and watched this whole episode unfold would be courageous enough to help me out of this situation. 

Seconds later, a couple, probably my parents age, passed by me and had seen everything happen.  Just when I felt really helpless, the lady came along, linked her arm into mine and said "Darling, why don't you come with us," and started walking me away from this guy.  Her husband then stayed between us and the guy and gestured for him to carry on walking in the other direction.  The guy started swearing and getting angry, while this sweet lady was comforting me, saying don't worry.  Finally, once he left, she said, "Why don't you carry on walking where you were going and we'll make sure he goes the other way and leaves you alone."  As I rushed away, I was shaken up, but at the same time had feelings of immense gratitude for this random couple who reached out to me and decided to do something about what they were seeing.  Here I was, thinking I was on a mission to do a random act of kindness, when instead, I ended up on the receiving end.  I guess it is equally important to learn how to receive and to feel gratitude for the kindness of others.

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Readers Comments

brighteyes wrote: Sonrisa: Glad you are OK and yes agree with your final statement about equal importance of receiving as well as gratitude....I don't find it hard to giving but receiving is not always easy...and am trying to cultivate a grateful heart 24/7..thanks for sharing your story...and keep on doing those ROAKs. HUGS & SMILES
lovebug wrote: What a wonderful story, I am a strong believer, angels are not only flying in space, they a real live people, human bodies and all. I see the comment from brighteyes, I have read his or her comments before, If only for a brief moment I seem to be in a space that tells me it is just as important to receive as it is to give
ieiblue wrote: risa... such circumstance in the future must be avoided... just so nice that as lovebug says there were walking angels....yeah,, we should always remember that sometimes we can only do so much and that as such situation you we're the one who received the blessing... :P
keymaker wrote: sonrisa, that really was quite an episode. sometimes the role of kindness is to provide a cushion for us to deal with subtle negative affinities. i'm so glad that the couple jumped in and that you're ok. I hope you continue to cultivate a heart of kindness!
Samsonmybf wrote: I agree with lovebug, your angels were there for you that day!
Keep smiling :)
Aurelia wrote: This story affirms why you/we should continue to step forward and continue with our ROAks. That couple may have been paying iot forward. Who knoows they may have been afraid too and were compelled to help because someone may have once helped them. Keep the ripple effect flowing...Happy endings are out there. :) ~Aurelila
speedi wrote: you were in the right place for your guardian angels to step forward and do "there" "good Deed" for the day...Bless you
geri wrote: WOW!!!!!!!!!!!! What a story and how lucky for you receiving the generosity and kindness of others. You alwo gave back to them by accepting their help.
tenderheart wrote: I am speechless. Thank God you are ok and thank God how blees you are. God always put his angels to protect us and keep us safe. thanks for sharing
ADEMI wrote: HE WHO REFRESHES OTHERS WILL HIMSELF BE REFRESHED THE BIBLE SAYS. YOUR INTENSION WAS TO HELP AND GOD CHOSE TO FAVOUR YOU BY RECEIVING IT INSTEAD. STAY ENCOURAGED.

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