Stories of Kindness from Around the World

In Debt To Strangers


--by singlestep, posted Mar 9, 2008

V.P. Menon was a significant political figure in India during its struggles for independence from Britain.

Eldest son of twelve children, he quit school at thirteen and worked as a laborer, coal miner, factory hand, merchant, and schoolteacher. He talked his way into a job as a clerk in the Indian administration, and his rise was meteoric-- largely because of his integrity and brilliant skills in working with both Indian and British officials in a productive way. (...)

Two characteristics stood out as particularly memorable -- a kind of aloof, impersonal efficiency, and a reputation for personal charity. His daughter explained the background of this latter trait after he died. When Menon arrived in Delhi to seek a job in government, all his possessions, including his money and I.D., were stolen at the railroad station. He would have to return home on foot, defeated. In desperation he turned to an elderly Sikh, explained his troubles and asked for a temporary loan of fifteen rupees to tide him over until he could get a job. The Sikh gave him the money. When Menon asked for his address so that he could repay the man, the Sikh said that Menon owed the debt to any stranger who came to him in need, as long as he lived. The help came from a stranger and was to be repaid to a stranger.

Menon never forgot that debt, neither the gift of trust nor the fifteen rupees. His daughter said that the day before Menon died, a beggar came to the family home in Bangalore asking for help to buy new sandals, for his feet were covered with sores. Menon asked his daughter to take fifteen rupees out of his wallet to give to the man. It was Menon's last conscious act.

This story was told to me by a man whose name I do not know, he was standing beside me in the Bombay airport at the left-baggage counter, I had come to reclaim my bags and had no Indian currency left. The agent would not take a traveler's check, and I was uncertain about getting my luggage and making my plane. The man paid my claim-check fee -- about eighty cents -- and told me the story as a way of refusing my attempt to figure out how to repay him. His father had been Menon's assistant and had learned Menon's charitable ways and passed them on to his son, The son had continued the tradition of seeing himself in debt to strangers, whenever, however.

From a nameless Sikh to an Indian civil servant to his assistant to his son to me, a white foreigner in a moment of frustrating inconvenience. The gift was not large as money goes, and my need was not great, but the spirit of the gift is beyond price and leaves me blessed and in debt.

--From: " All I Really Need To Know I Learned In Kindergarten " by Robert Fulghum
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Readers Comments

astrocrazy2005 wrote: a inspirational story!!!
aogrn wrote: Someone once saved my life...many years later he went to prison and I wrote him daily..prayed with him and for him. Today he is my very best friend. I cannot repay his debt...my precious life. The worth he saw in me.
Lovebug wrote: strange things seem to be happening to me. People seem to find me, people I have not seen or thought of in years. I have a new name, a new address, but they seem to find me anyway, I receive phone calls and the voice always asks me if I remember when I had done or said something kind. I have to be honest, No I do not rememberm but they do and call to thank me, they then proceed to tell me, I made a difference in their lives. What more could I ask for in life. Someone remembered, it does make my life worthwhile.
ieiblue wrote: so much cruelty in the world.. but in difficult instances of our lives... there will always be someone who is ready to give us a hand.. why?... because being good and nice is not dead.. and we will forever continue such work in the best way we can....right step?... hold on.... :P
chasysueboo wrote: I got the chills reading this story. As with many stories I read here. They keep me going. Knowing it is so worth it to help anyone, anytime.
myturn wrote: to know one single situation handled with humanity, compassion, and integrity can make such difference is a beautiful thing. Thank you for sharing.
Michelle wrote: This story is so insperational! More people should continue to act in a way that could help others. Its important to always help others because it can truly inspire others to do the same. :)
Nickgrand wrote: Thank you for shearing!! God bless!
cinnamonhead wrote: Thanks so much for sharing, what a great lesson that we can learn from it. I will share with others.
warmth wrote: excellent. I hope i can try and do such a thing as well. Thank u so much for posting this out of the world experience here.
God Bless u :)
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