Stories of Kindness from Around the World

One Scary Man


--by JLocoHead, posted Jun 24, 2007

I know that the title is little curious. But the scary homeless man is even more curious.

I have lived in Mayport Florida for about three years. Every day, leaving work, coming home and running errands, I pass this homeless man with two shopping baskets full of his treasures.  Except for about 2-3 months of the year (and I'm not sure where he goes during that time), he is always around, never to be missed.

Anyhow, the reason I call him a scary man is because my son and I are often together when we see this man and he's always talkin to him self and staring at people with an awkward look. He talks loud and much of what he says does not make sense. With his two carts filled to the top, he's there just talking away.  It's intimidating.

My wife and I are always talking about his misfortune and how we would like to help but we were kind of scared to because we did not know how he would react.  Would he yell more, throw things, come after us?

Well, after getting my smile cards and having so much fun doing kind things, my 10 year old son and I gathered enough nerve one day and stopped our car where this scary man was.

I told my son to stay in the car, as I was going to take this homeless man a soda and a smile card, and tell him to have a wonderful day.

He had his back turned to me as I was walking towards him; as usual, he was talking to himself very loud and I was getting nervous as I was getting closer to him. I was about 5 feet from him he still had his back turned and I said, "Excuse me, Sir. May I talk to you for a minute?"

Now this man had not seen me pull up nor did he know that I had a soda in my hand.   As he turned around, I did not even have to wait to see that he had a grin on his face that went from ear to ear. I was amazed and wondering why this man would be so happy to see me. I had not even given him the soda, the card, or even told him to have wonderful day yet.

But he was so happy. I have never seen this man smile in 3 years.

Well I gave him the soda, the smile card and told him to have a wonderful day. He just kept smiling and said thank you. He smiled the whole time until I left. He even waived good-bye ... something that I have never seen him do before.

I think it made me feel better than it made him feel. God bless that man.

He was not a scary. man  He was an amazing man.

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Readers Comments

MakeSomeoneSmile wrote: So many people pass by and do nothing. They are people too. Thanks for making a difference and stopping for just a moment. What a great example to your son!
brighteyes wrote: I am so proud of you for overcoming your fear of the scary man and to provide him with soda and card..I believe your acknowledging him, smiling and telling him to have wonderful day..made his day! and mine.
You're my Kindness Hero today!
Smiles & Blessings from Brighteyes ;)
lovebug wrote: Great job, it is hard to overcome the fear or people who appear scary
AURELIA wrote: JLocoHead, That's an amazing story.Your heart must have grown twice it's size...swelling with care and compassion for a stranger. Reaching out to him like that is one of the most incredible things I've read in a while. Good for you and I know your son learned a beautiful lesson that day. ~Aurelia
anneclark wrote: Thank you for teaching the next generation to have an open mind to those who are different than we are. You have made my evening.
anne :)
Babygirl wrote: The homeless people on our streets and in our neighborhoods are the most over looked, because most of the time they do look scary, but your kindness showed you the true person underneath, thank you for taking the time to take a minute a recognize another person for their true worth.
shez wrote: Well done. Such a simple act has made someones day. That is really worth smiling about!!
warmth wrote: You have done a special thing. ABove all you set an example for ur child too. Thank u so much for making the old man feel good.
afriendlysmile wrote: It would have ment so much to that man just to be accepted as a normal human being,to be talked to and smiled at.

Sometimes we have to leave our comfort zone to get the true meaning of life.
Thank you for taking that step.
Love and smiles
afriendlysmile:)





Suzie wrote: What a contribution you made when you "took a chance" on making a difference. We should all be so brave!

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