Stories of Kindness from Around the World

Victim Treats His Mugger Right


--by Serendipity, posted Mar 28, 2008
Julio Diaz has a daily routine. Every night, the 31-year-old social worker ends his hour-long subway commute to the Bronx one stop early, just so he can eat at his favorite diner.

But one night last month, as Diaz stepped off the No. 6 train and onto a nearly empty platform, his evening took an unexpected turn.

He was walking toward the stairs when a teenage boy approached and pulled out a knife.

"He wants my money, so I just gave him my wallet and told him, 'Here you go,'" Diaz says.

As the teen began to walk away, Diaz told him, "Hey, wait a minute. You forgot something. If you're going to be robbing people for the rest of the night, you might as well take my coat to keep you warm."

The would-be robber looked at his would-be victim, "like what's going on here?" Diaz says. "He asked me, 'Why are you doing this?'"

Diaz replied: "If you're willing to risk your freedom for a few dollars, then I guess you must really need the money. I mean, all I wanted to do was get dinner and if you really want to join me ... hey, you're more than welcome.

"You know, I just felt maybe he really needs help," Diaz says.

Diaz says he and the teen went into the diner and sat in a booth.

"The manager comes by, the dishwashers come by, the waiters come by to say hi," Diaz says. "The kid was like, 'You know everybody here. Do you own this place?'"

"No, I just eat here a lot," Diaz says he told the teen. "He says, 'But you're even nice to the dishwasher.'"

Diaz replied, "Well, haven't you been taught you should be nice to everybody?"

"Yea, but I didn't think people actually behaved that way," the teen said.

Diaz asked him what he wanted out of life. "He just had almost a sad face," Diaz says.

The teen couldn't answer Diaz — or he didn't want to.

When the bill arrived, Diaz told the teen, "Look, I guess you're going to have to pay for this bill 'cause you have my money and I can't pay for this. So if you give me my wallet back, I'll gladly treat you."

The teen "didn't even think about it" and returned the wallet, Diaz says. "I gave him $20 ... I figure maybe it'll help him. I don't know."

Diaz says he asked for something in return — the teen's knife — "and he gave it to me."

Afterward, when Diaz told his mother what happened, she said, "You're the type of kid that if someone asked you for the time, you gave them your watch."

"I figure, you know, if you treat people right, you can only hope that they treat you right. It's as simple as it gets in this complicated world."

[ Original Story on NPR ]

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cabbage wrote: What an incredible story---and I am sure that the experience will never be forgotten by either party. Just goes to show--it's all in how you look at the situation. You saw it as an opportunity to help this kid---and I'm betting it did.
lovebug wrote: As you all know, I do not attend the buiding ot adhear to humand doctrrine.But I do read the good book. What is it that I know in my golden age. I know my vision is not as good as it once was, and it is getting harder to see the print on this small screen. But I do remember reading in this book, while I was able to see what was written by man, that is all I will ever know in my humand mind, and I thank God I was able to read at all even though I Am not a good speller. But I do remember, or at least I think I remember, the lasst words of Christ was "forgive them God they do not know what they are doing"/ I am willing to conceed maybe I do not know how to read or spell very well, But I do believe, those were the last words of the living Christ. Please feel free to correct me if I misunderstood.Peace and God Bless.
liztree wrote: That is such a great story. Amazing what a bit of courage and compassion can accomplish.
Wendy wrote: WOW!! IS ALL I CAN SAY!! I would have never thought to offer my coat in a million years! WOW
wotserface wrote: I was humbled by this story, what a man!!
zzinglish wrote: Mr. Diaz showed a lot of wisdom in the way he handled what began as a very negative situation and turned it into a never to be forgotten by either party win/win memory. Some can learn a great deal in only 30 years, just like the Christ.


Lovebug: I believe the last spoken words of Christ were: "Father, into your hands I commend my soul." The ones you mentioned are usually depicted as he was being nailed to the cross. Of course we both could be wrong since I admit I wasn't there, that I can recall... yet.
akbj wrote: Just, WOW. Giving him your coat, I would have been so terrified, how did you keep your head so straight? Then taking him to eat. That whole story is so Christlike. I'd hope to be half the human being that this writer is. Thank you so much
lmil1954 wrote: He surely learned from Jesus...turn the other cheek...give him your cloak as well...I am so humbled by your story. Thank you so so much for posting it! What a proud mama Julio has!!! Linda:)
brie wrote: kindness really can save us :)
bobbylobby wrote: i love this story.
if anyone muggs me ill think about doing this!

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