Stories of Kindness from Around the World

Compassion in Action at a Nursing Home


--by kathy2, posted May 4, 2008

A few years ago, I was working "on loan" to a company grocery store, as they were short-handed during the Christmas Holidays. I was not used to the management nor the clientele at this unit.  As I was checking groceries that morning, an elderly man in a wheelchair came through my checkstand with a basket filled with candy, cigars, and a few trinkets. As I finished ringing up his purchases, I told the man the dollar amount and he presented an out-of-state check from his son. He explained to me that his son had sent him the check for his Christmas present and he wanted to use it to purchase gifts for the friends and wonderful staff at the nursing home located a few blocks behind the store where he resided.

Since this was not my "home" store, I needed to have the check approved prior to accepting it. When the person in charge came over, she looked annoyed and proceeded to tell the gentleman that it was out of the question, in a very rude and condescending manner. She informed the gentleman he would just have to go to a bank and get them to cash the out-of- state check. The elderly gentleman started to softly cry as he looked up at me and appologized for being unable to pay his bill.

I think my heart stopped, I could only think this man could be my grandfather.  I am sure he was a wonderful functioning member of our society before he was left incapacitated by illness and old age. I was so affected by his kindness and look of gentleness on the man's face, and couldn't believe the unfeeling way the young manager had denied the gentleman's request. I wept while trying to check out the next few customers.

That night when I got home, I told my young daughter that we had a few errands to run.  I went to a grocery store in our area and duplicated the gentleman's order almost to a "T" with some extra goodies just for him.  We drove the miles to find the nursing home behind the store I had worked in that day.  Luckily, the home was easy to find, but I was just hoping it would be just as easy to find the gentleman.  There were Christmas decorations shining, and carolers entertaining the residents at the home when my daughter and I arrived. I discribed the man to a nurse sitting at the desk and she told me I was in luck.  There were only a few male residents in the home and she knew just who I was talking about. She escorted us to the man's room, where he was sleeping.

As I gently touched the man's hand, he awakened and looked at me in surprise. I said, "Sir, you probably do not remember me, but I am the lady who checked your items out at the grocery store today." I handed him a basket filled with all the things he wished to purchase that day.  He looked up at me, looked to my daughter, and then to the nurse who had accompanied us to his room.  In a quivering voice, he said to the nurse, "Oh my, God sent me an angel," and he started to weep. I leaned down and kissed his forehead.  I turned to my daughter, who stood there in awe of the feeling in the room.  I gently took her hand and left as I could no longer contain my tears.

Out in the car it was a long time before my young daughter said anything to me.  She hugged me and said that was the best present she could ever imagine. Even though we were the ones who took the gifts to the elderly gentleman that day, I was so grateful that fate had brought him to my checkstand. I was the one who was truly blessed by the opportunity to give.

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Readers Comments

dancingDog wrote: kathy - Your beautiful story made me cry - you are indeed an angel! Thank you for inspiring us all to seize the kindness opportunities that come our way. :=D
brighteyes wrote: Kathy....you got me teary eyed too...your story and your warmth and generosity touched me deeply....yes, I do agree with the gentleman, there are earth angel (humans without wings) that when open hearted and open to God's prompting our angels for other's here as well....God Bless you!
retrogal wrote: Kathy - it was a generous thing that you did for that gentleman, and a wonderful example you have set for your daughter. We can pray that the store manager will soften with time. It is so easy to overlook the person when "following the rules." A lesson for us all. Blessings for you and your family.
megumi wrote: How wonderful to be used by God that way. Angels come in the most unexpected places...I am so glad that I was able to read this today. You really made my day. May the God of ALL peace be with you daily ... as I am sure He is.
MakeSomeoneSmile wrote: What a wonderful story, thank you so much for sharing. Thank you too for doing so much to make it a wonderful Christmas for that man. I can only hope that there are people like you around as I get older too. Thanks so much for sharing!
anonimus wrote: Dear Kathy
You truly are an angel and i know your daughter couldn't be more proud to call you Mum.You have a beautiful soul..Your story made me cry and you have made my morning and my day..thanks for sharing and God bless.:-}
Alicia wrote: Dear Kathy,

Thank you for being very very kind. You are a very very beautiful angel. Thank you again for your kindness. It is people like you that other people are so grateful that you are near and here. God loves you.

Alicia
lovebug wrote: I don't think you made me cry with your wonderful story. You added to my suspicion, Christ is very much alive. God does not handout the gift of giving to everyone. You have to be special.PEACE
liztree wrote: Beautiful!
Nandi wrote: Dear Kathy,

Very touching story, indeed!

That was extremely sweet, kind and generous of you. Hats off to you, Kathy, a very wonderful soul.
Yes, that gentleman was right in calling u an angel. God chooses special souls to be His messengers! On this occasion, He chose you!!
May you continue to do such (random) acts of kindness.
Your daughter too is a sweet and a kind soul; my love to her.
Love,
Nandi

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