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Unforgettable Hug at Orange County Jail


--by supune, posted May 15, 2008
I volunteer for Orange County Jail's "Lights On" project on Saturday nights -- in a RV, from 11PM to 4AM, we provide a safe space for released prisoners until they find a ride home.  Of the many interesting stories I've heard, a particular story of 50 year old prisoner really touched me.

After his last stay in jail, this 50 years old guy was homeless. He did have a family member and a friend that would let him sleep over sometimes, but on this particular night, he decided to come back and hang out with us in the RV.

He told us how he has "anger issues".  He'd got into fights over "petty things", he'd been a small-time burglar, he'd been arrested for being under the influence while driving or being in public places. .  He'd been a small time burglar and had been in and out of incarceration for a lot of his life.  In fact, most of the friends he made were from prison (he'd pray with many of them and become friends that way).  And like that, he was just kind of floating through life.

One day while he was on parole, he was sitting at a bar drinking a beer. All of a sudden, the customers started running out to see some kind of commotion. When he got outside, he saw that there were 2 men beating a woman on top of a hill that was a few blocks away.

Nobody was doing anything but watching.  "I was a little drunk, but then all of a sudden I felt really angry about what I was seeing," he said.  The feeling inside him was so strong that his ears started ringing.  He doesn't remember how he jumped a couple fences and scraped up his hands as he got to where the action was going on, but by the time he realized what was going on, he had chased away one attacker and had another man in a choke hold!

Then, a taxi driver came and pulled a gun on all of them. Fortunately, the lady that was being beaten up was able to tell the taxi driver who the good guy was.  He told the taxi driver that he was on parole and didn't want to be involved at all; the taxi driver didn't say anything and let him run away.  The lady, it turns out, went into a coma for 2 weeks but thankfully, she survived.

Some time later, our prisoner friend actually ran into the lady on the streets, as she was able to say, "Thank you." But, the rescuer said that he didn't think much of it.

A few years later, while being released from another unrelated prison stay, he became friends with a man that he was released with. Later, he figured out that his new friend was the brother of the lady that was attacked.  After it was explained that his sister was saved by this new friend, the brother said, "Stand Up!". The rescuer was not sure what to do or even if this was a challenge to fight. But as he stood up, he got the biggest hug he had ever experienced!

And he said that's when the "Thank You" from before really sunk in, and he felt it.
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Readers Comments

lmil1954 wrote: Thank you so much for sharing this story. You are appreciated as the "rescuer" was.
Ayubowan wrote: It just goes to show, that so called people who do not show their emotions, whether anger or otherwise, did not help. We must, at all times respond others needs, whether it is a difficult situation or a stranger's smile. Thank you for sharing this. Patrick
bibirose wrote: Wow, that is an amazing story. Anger can be a very positive emotion, its just a matter of how we use it.
lovebug wrote: Wonderful story, I also find anger can be a very positive emotion, if it is used in a non-violent way
Norman wrote: Thanks for sharing.This depicts just how much we are brothers and sisters, no matter how familiar, or strangers, we are to one another.
supun wrote: I wanted to add this quote that I heard in a song that's helped me in the last few days

the heights you'll reach
the depths you'll delve to
depends on the propulsion
system that propels you
methods that compel you
messages they sell you
punishments they give you
for doing what they tell you
but we've got passion
they've got prisons
you've got the freedom to
make a decision
will you abandon
all your addictions
take your stand and
live your convictions

thanks for reading this and all the comments
BigRedClown wrote: More tears... thanks..
gianna wrote: What an amazing story, Supun. I am so proud of that guy for helping out the lady and doing what was right even though he was in some dire straits himself. Thanks for sharing!This brightened my day. Than u.
cindy wrote: What a wonderful good samaritan, I hope GOD blesses him.
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