Turning a Security Guard's Frown Into a Smile

--by nila, posted May 25, 2008

I am new to helpothers.org and have been reading the stories on this site for the past week only. They have inspired me to get over my hesitations and have transformed me into a lively and compassionate human being. I find myself helping people in small ways which I had never thought of before.

I live in an apartment and since I work night shifts, I usually come home late everyday around 3 o'clock in the morning. The security person typically opens the door in a gruff manner -- in fact, I had never seen him smile either to me or anyone else. I said thank you everyday when he opened the door and he would just nod his head.

Then one day, when I finished work, I felt hungry and decided to get some biscuits and hot puffs (I'm used to eating at unusual timings because of my work timings). When I reached the apartment, he opened the gate as usual in his gruff manner. He was sneezing and coughing due to the cold weather outside.

On an impluse I called out to him and offered the bag of eatbles I had gotten for myself and also gave him a tablet for his cold, some cold balm and the inhaler I had. I said I'm sorry but I have just one hot puff left, but he said whatever it is that's ok and his face broke into the first smile I ever saw. I saw him apply the cold balm as I went inside and it sure made my day. I slept with a peaceful and happy smile.

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Posted by nila
May 25, 2008
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Readers Comments

southerncross wrote: That was very nice of you. You know people like him are often the ones less thought of and his job is very important to each one he opens the door for. Thanks and may God Bless you and your family. Happy New Year.

AURELIA wrote: WELCOME Nila! You learn fast. Yes it does feel good to be kind to others. You know he'll probably be smiling too when he goes to bed thinking of the heavenly angel God sent to look out for him. God Bless You. ~Aurelia

warmth wrote: keep it up nila ! God Bless u :)

wayfarer wrote: It only gets better and better. Well done!

JuneBug wrote: Having a cold or especially the flu is enough to make one grumpy! You did such a nice gesture for him. He surely appreciates it!!!! Even though he still may appear gruff you have gained a new friend! PLUS now you will be making more here at Helpothers...WELCOME!! :}

makesomeonesmile wrote: Good for you for making a difference! Every kindness matters. Thanks for caring and I look forward to reading more from you in the future! Welcome to our kindness family!

lmil1954 wrote: Welcome Nila! You really made a difference in one man's dispostion. One smile at a time, my friend, that's what it's all about. LindaM

geet wrote: That was a very warm gesture. This is a great way of making a difference.

trinatooth wrote: I bet the next time you pass him at the door...you will get a big smile.I hope you will continue to receive great pleasure as you dole out kindnesses.

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