Stories of Kindness from Around the World

Uncle Unconditional


--by nila, posted Jan 11, 2009

I went to visit my parents this past holiday weekend. During the trip, we went to visit my ailing uncle. He was in the hospital due to a heart attack. It was the second heart attack he had in the last four months and this time the doctors said it is really quite serious. The whole family has been wishing him thoughts and blessings of healing since he is the eldest one in our family and particularly because we hope he can live to see his son's upcoming wedding which is scheduled for next month. 

As I looked at the situation with all of its uncertainty, I began to think about the life this man lead. He is 60 years old. He has spent his whole life teaching low-income inner city school children whose families are primarily broken, that these youngsters have hope, because hope is priceless. When I went to see him one last time before I left to head back to my home, I brought my uncle a fruit basket with a smile card tucked inside. As I peered through the clear window of the the thick hospital door, I just saw barren white walls and my uncle lying and looking frail on the hospital bed. However, when I slowly opened the door to his hospital room, I discovered something much more. 

I saw a cluster of small children dangling beside my uncle's bed. I saw teenagers exchanging a few remarks with my uncle. I saw adults holding his hand closely with tears in their eyes. I saw that it was not only I who had such good thoughts about my uncle. I saw how he was not just a family member to me, but he was also a family member to many others: children, teenagers, adults, and the many people he helped at least once in his life through his teaching. They grew in his kindness and through kindness, they returned.  

I watched this beautiful movement and thought it was exactly the kind of life I wanted to live. If I have even one person who truly mourned for my loss when I die, not because I am gone, but because I helped that person grow, then I would feel that my life was worth living. I hope my uncle leaves the hospital soon. The children in our town are waiting for their teacher.

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wayfarer wrote: You uncle sound like a blessing to many. He has my admiration, respect and prayers.
liztree wrote: I will think positive healing thoughts for your lovely uncle.
AURELIA wrote: Being surrounded by all that love will have him back in action before you know it. Prayers and Blessings on their way. ~Aurelia
JuneBug wrote: My favorite uncle is in the hospital too. I haven't been able to go see him as I have been sick, but I call and joke around hoping to make him feel better. I pray for your uncle as well!!
lovebug wrote: Thanks for sharing your uncle and the thoughts you have about him, it does show you are a very good soul. The comments by others showed me, this world has many uncles. If we could gather all of these good souls together into one spot, the light would be so bright there would be no place on earth were violence and hate could take root and grow.PEACE
tressyanne wrote: your uncle is in my thoughts and prayers. Your visit made the world of difference. Let him know he has many prayers and thoughts and smiles coming his way. :)
dizzy50dianne wrote: I'm sure you've heard the quote: When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced.

Live your life in such a way that when you die, the WORLD will cry and you will rejoice.

Beautiful story. Beautiful man. You've inherited some of his genes and it shows.

Hope he'll be tip-top for the wedding.
nila wrote: Thank U Guys for all of your support and wishes. I am sure your prayers have reached him and it will give him the power to recover soon. Thank you for the encouragement.
makingyousmile wrote: I pray for his recovery soon and God bless you all...
MakeSomeoneSmile wrote: My prayers are with him and you as well!

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