Stories of Kindness from Around the World

An Exercise In Compassion


--by craig, posted Nov 1, 2009

I sometimes look out of my window with envy at the parade of bicyclists who ride past my apartment each morning on their daily commute into the city. I work from home, and getting exercise outside is not easy for me. Since I moved into this apartment, my bicycle has been in hibernation. I had been longing to get on it, but I have a market almost next door, so I find it difficult getting any riding in.

One morning, though, I decided to commute to work just like the cyclists under my window. I planned to bike up the long hill to the bridge and coast back to start my day, a two mile loop. Eager to get out, I filled the rear tire with air, and pushed off into the street. I was so happy to be riding again!

Right away, I raced past a bike-commuter, and beat him up the first rise. Now I had to keep the pace up, lest he pass me. But then my bike started to drag. I heard a loud shuffling sound as if I was hitting the rear break, and I felt more and more resistance. In a few seconds, he passed me, and whistled around the bend in the road, out of sight. The resistance came from my rear wheel being loose, and it was digging into the chain and slowing me down.

I stopped and hopped off the bike to adjust it, and another commuter stopped right behind me.

"I've got an extra tube if you've got a flat and need one," he said.

"No thanks," I told him. "It's just my tire that needs adjustment. Thank you, though."

Three seconds after he disappeared around the bend, another commuter barreled down the hill in the other direction. He clenched his brakes and called across the street to me.

"You need a hand?"

"I'm fine, thanks," I replied.

"Your rear tire is looking a little low," he observed.

"Thank you, I've got a pump."

"Have a good ride then," he said, crossing the street and climbing the hill back where he had just come down from.

It was then that I realized that he was the first guy I was racing! He must have noticed that I was no longer following him, and turned back to see if I was okay. I was really moved by that. The first two cyclists who saw me were both willing to stop their commute to help me out. What are the chances of that? After I had fixed the wheel, I took a detour up to the bridge. On the descent down, back on the main road, something felt funny again, the handling was slippery. The rear tire was looking low. It was just as the cyclist who had come back to help me had said.

I dismounted again, and leaned the bike against a pole to pump more air into it. I realised that it had a slow leak and would need a repair. Then a third bike-commuter, pedaling up the hill, called across the street.

"You got everything you need?" he checked.

"Yes, and thank you!" I called back. "You're the third who has asked to help!"

That was three out of three, 100% of those who passed me, were willing to stop their commute to help a stranger who may have been in danger of getting to work late. Now I can see why so many take that commute under my window every morning.

The bike commuters have clearly created a culture of generosity and helping others so that everyone gets to work on time. I was so touched to begin my workday surrounded with such kindness. The commuters showed me this morning that commuting to work on a bike is much more than a race, getting a workout, and cycling to work. The path they ride is an exercise in compassion.

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Readers Comments

PRAKASH wrote: I have a strong sense of compassion and kindness towards all the living creature in this universe. I get hurt when i come across any sort of violence being committed in the world.

I wish this world to be full of the people like lord buddha who was ocean of love, compassion, kindness, tolerance.

I am unable to survive in this world cause everywhere cruelty is spread. Could you please give me a direction.

I would like to hear from you.

Prakash
LaineBailey wrote: This is a "perfect" story for those who suffer from "road-rage"! The first guy,,, the one who noticed you were "missing" ,,, especially touched my heart!
Michele wrote: It is great to hear that people take time out of their day to help. Very encouraging. :)
Raja Rao Y wrote: Sincere efforts and persistence have moved the hearts and a kind action is volunteered. A helping hand is greater than the praying lips.
Kiteflier wrote: Wonderful story. Thanks for sharing!
NMANURA wrote: I concur. Hoping motorists everywhere would emulate this great 'compassion culture' of cyclists. It will help reduce frustration, anxiety especially where in-security is prevalent. Thanx 4 sharing this inspiriny story. Keep-on-keeping-on.
friendly wrote: Hey craig,what a great story and so worth telling. Please tell me where in the world gid this happen. I'm at firmount@hotmail. Com
shirleyjohn wrote: Felt very happy while reading this. Let the good make noise.

My recent post : why should i worry?
Norman wrote: Couldn't have been said any better. Thanks for the story. Excellent ending you have there. " a ride in compassion". :)
Susthi wrote: One person at a time showing kindness and love to one another.

Unconditional love: the strongest power and only solution. Xzujn

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