Pay-It-Forward, A Labour of Love
--by iferlamb, posted Feb 22, 2010
Once a year my Great Aunt Glenna (both in relation and in just plain greatness) gets all the ladies in the family together for a weekend at a cabin set in the woods. There are no distractions like television or radio. It is a time to commune with nature and to draw close to one another. We always have the MOST wonderful time!
At the most recent of these get-togethers, I decided it would be a lot of fun to get a smile card going. I envisioned it would be passed from lady to lady with one kind act after another the whole weekend. The first morning I put a bag of mini M&M's in my Great Aunt Dorris' shoe related to a precious story she told about her grandson. It started a string of questions aimed at uncovering the doer of the ANONYMOUS act of kindness. I was suspect number one but I would never admit to it. It did not start the ripple I had hoped it would. No more smile card acts of kindness were done with that card that weekend.
Still, the Universe has a funny way of thanking you and returning your kindness to you. I had admired a bracelet not knowing who it belonged to and commented on its beauty to the ladies sitting around me at the time. Well, one of those ladies knew who it belonged to and told her how much I liked it. On the morning we were leaving she brought it to me and said she would like for me to have it. I was overjoyed! I knew just what to do... Pay it Forward!
I had another smile card and a beautiful ring so I slipped both into my Aunt Eva Gay's bag while no one was looking. Once again it was treated like a mystery to solve and I was again, suspect number one.
In holding true to our anonymous acts of kindness mantra, I never revealed my role in the small Smile Card gifts. It is funny how the point is sometimes overlooked. I will keep teaching and hope that the lesson is learned. Instead of seeking to thank the giver... Pay it Forward! Do something kind for someone else. I am so pleased to know all of you here at Help Others who "get it"! We seem to be few but we are doing what we can to change that. It is a labor of love.
Have a sunshine day. :)