Stories of Kindness from Around the World

A Humbling Experience in Receiving Random Kindness


--by bob.gelinas, posted Aug 15, 2010

Many of the stories that I read on HelpOthers are all about helping other people, doing acts of kindness for someone else.  Often times it's easy to forget that no matter who you are, you're not always the giver - sometimes it's we who receive that random act of kindness.  When it happens, it almost feels odd to some extent that you are on the other end - receiving vs. giving. In some way, it can be quite a humbling experience.  

And so my story begins ....

My daughter and I had gone into Subway one evening to get sandwiches for the two of us, plus one for my wife.  Prior to going to Subway, I had checked my bank account to make sure that I had money on my debit card.  I had moved what I thought to be several hundred dollars to my card.  Come to find out in my haste, I never confirmed the transaction and so I virtually had no money in my account.

I step up to cash register to pay for our subs, my debit card get's rejected.  I'm standing there telling the cashier it has to be a mistake - so they run it again. REJECTED!!!  Well I'm sure most people have been in this sort of situation and how embarrassing it can be.  Of course, there's a long line of people waiting, hearing this whole thing transpire.  Behind me, I noticed there was a young man in his mid-20's.  I asked the cashier to hold the subs and that I would come back for them.  I went out to my car and called my son, asking him to check my account on line.  Well, I learned I never actually moved the money.

I was explaining to my son what he needed to do to put money into my account when all of a sudden there was a knock at my car window.  The young man (called himself Steve) who had been standing behind me in line was standing there holding our bag of subs.  I was surprised and wondered what was going on.  Opening the door he handed me the subs and told me not to worry, he paid for the subs - he wanted to do something good for someone.

I was stunned that this was happening - usually I'm on the giving end!  I asked Steve for his full name and address so I could send him the money - but he wouldn't hear of it.  He said that he wanted to do it and that he did not want to be reimbursed.  Still stunned - I thanked him several more times and I told him what a nice thing he had done, that we really appreciated it.

As Steve drove from the parking lot, my daughter and I just sat there in amazement how this whole thing unfolded.  Our order cost over $20 and this young man came to our rescue.  I've never seen Steve again, but I will always remember his act of kindness and how humble I felt after being on the receiving end of a random act of kindness.

Lets not forget, it's a wonderful feeling inside to give, it makes us appreciate those times even more when some gives that kindness back.  Humbling to say the least ...

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Readers Comments

cirrus wrote: wow, steve seems like a very nice guy. You don't come across those every day.
MakeSomeoneSmile wrote: That is very nice. One great thing about being the recipient of a kind act is that you gave someone else the chance to do an act of kindness. Everybody wins! :)
iferlamb wrote: Yes, I agree with MSS. Also, it gives you an opportunity to "pay it forward"! Love that!!! It's just as much fun as RAKs!
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JuneBug wrote: WHATTA YUMMY GESTURE !!!! :D
unknown wrote: la la la ... let's dance with joy in our hearts for Steve :)
Bluebellgirl wrote: i like a lot! way to go steve! kindness wins whether we are giver or receiver! :D
bob.gelinas wrote: Yes - I have to say I take my hat of Steve! With so much bad we see in the world it was a wonderful thing to see that someone cares. We need more Steve's in this world. I will certainly pay it forward!
Ellen Benedetto wrote: What a wonderful, uplifting story. I am particularly impressed by the age of the young man as all too often today, the younger generation seems to be impatient and to lack compassion. Bravo to his parents for raising such a caring person.
Maryjersey wrote: Bob, thanks for actually allowing steve to do this. I think it's important not just to give, but to allow someone to give to us from time to time as well. Thanks for sharing your story.
Charlie48 wrote: Lovely story and what it teaches us is that it takes both a giver and a receiver to make good things happen. It isn't always easy to be the receiver, that's a lesson as well. Thanks for sharing and pay it forward

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