I've had the opportunity to serve my mother a lot recently, and I wanted to share, in hopes that others can be inspired.A couple days ago, my mom had to undergo surgery to remove a tumor. The tumor was near her parotid gland, which, unfortunately, is right on her face. With all the love I could muster, I stayed with her for the several hours of the surgery, and then continued to stay by her bedside for the next two days, as she recovered in the hospital.
She seemed in good spirits, despite the occasional aches and pains from the surgery. I really tried to keep her company. I watched TV with her in her hospital room, we talked lightly about funny memories, and I did everything I could to put a smile on her face. =)
After the doctor said it was okay for her to return home, I took her home, and have since been taking care of her in whatever small way I can-- cooking her food, doing housework, and changing her bandages.
Like a lot of mothers, she insists that she can do all these things on her own. And of course, I'm sure she can... but I won't let her. =) I really think it's good for us to help people close to us, even if they insist they can do it on their own or don't need our help.
I've learned and grown so much from the opportunity to serve my mother, and I wish everyone the opportunity to help someone close to you. =)
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- Posted by Micah1116
- Sep 19, 2013
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hope2013 wrote: Everyone needs someone to look out for them especially in the hospital. You are fortunate that your schedule is flexible. Your mother may say she can take care of herself, yet i am sure looking back on the time, she will cherish your loving ways.
MakeSomeoneSmile wrote: It is good to do indeed. Thanks for caring and helping no matter what! :)
princessliz wrote: Your heart is so pure Micah. You've been so helpful to her despite your own personal challenges.
May kindness follow you where ever you go. Glad to know you're taking care of mom. Love you loads ❤
~Blessings~
May kindness follow you where ever you go. Glad to know you're taking care of mom. Love you loads ❤
~Blessings~
FairyBubbles wrote: That is a beautiful story of your loving kindness. (((HUG)))
jsmc10 wrote: bless you, thank you for being there for your mum, I know going through this can't have been easy for either of you
Mish wrote: Surgery leaves you fatigued & you're being there with your mom means so much on so many levels. Blessed be.
denisemj wrote: I'm so glad that you were available to help your mom. I feel we can never repay them back for all of the love and support given. Thanks for caring and sharing :)
thaata wrote: I agree with you that we should do all that can be done to our near and dear ones in their times of need, especially to our Mother (and father too!. We will not be able to repay the love they showered on us when we were kids.
deactivated wrote: for sure u r lovely.
bluxess wrote: Thank you for being with her when it matters the most ... If all wakes up and labor for love, our world would be the blessed planet. That's certainly inspiring. Bless you :-)
