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Blue-Eyed Blessing


--by Patt, posted Sep 26, 2013
It has always been hard for me to give homeless people money, even when it tugs at my heart strings. Maybe I've heard too many times that they would use it to buy drugs or alcohol.

Yesterday, on my way home, I made a stop at a shopping center. On the way into the store, I notice a man standing with a sign. On my way out, I decided to exit from the other side.

When I got back into my car, without thinking, I went back the way I had come in. I took some money out of my purse and pulled up to the man. I looked straight into his beautiful blue eyes and handed him the money.

"Bless you," he said, and he took the money.

I said a prayer for him as I drove away, for I was deeply touched by those eyes. There was so much human grace in them.

I don't know what he will do with the money. His sign said something about being homeless and I truly hope he was placed in my path because his need was real and I was able to help in some small way.

Those eyes touched my soul and I was deeply moved.
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Readers Comments

linneamaren wrote: I think, sometimes, it has less to do with what happens after they have the money than it does with the fact that you had empathy for another human. Good for you. <3
kidzfirst wrote: You did a wonderful thing. It can be hard to give to strangers when we dont' really know their situation, but you took a leap of faith and did a kind act. Bless you!
Mish wrote: His eyes touched your soul..... perhaps your kindness to him touched his. Bless you for your kindness.
jsmc10 wrote: I hope he uses the money well too, I think you can tell a person by their eyes, I think those eyes seemed genuine, bless you :)
princessliz wrote: I don't blame you for being weary.
However, thanks for helping him out.
FairyBubbles wrote: That is a lovely story and you have filled my soul with hope.
AURELIA wrote: I am glad you gave freely. That's all we can do...when something feels right, follow your heart. Who knows what he'll do with it. It'll make him happy knowing you cared.
~Aurelia :0) Smiles are Contagious
BELLO wrote: I am going to share this on my radio show this morning, February 12, 2013. Thank you for caring and then sharing your caring with us. Bless you
cf wrote: I know that inner debate. My solution is to allow myself to be whimsical. I only give when I feel good about it, when I feel I'm giving freely. I usually don't give when the thought "I should" pops up. And, I have stopped wanting to control what my money goes toward. Alcoholism and drug-addictions are diseases, and if these people get themselves some relief with my money, who am I to judge, coming from loving parents who wanted for nothing, at least in a material way? So many poeple end up on drugs and on alcohol through emotional and physical neglect, if not abuse. Who am I to judge? And then, sometimes, if my gut tells me, no money, I'll offer them a coffee, medecine or something to eat, and I will take a "no" calmly, because even though they're begging, they still have the right to refuse an offer.
Bluxess wrote: Patt: I have had similar concerns in the past ... but here is my current take. It is possible that the man might use it for dope or alcohol ... But at some point, he will get frustrated with how he misuses the money and feed himself. Slowly, he will offer food for someone else ... With time, he will develop a great new habit and finally he will become one like us ... All we have to do is to give without a judgment ...

I feel you gave him from a very pure space and you both connected ... I can feel it ... Thank you very much for going out of your way :-)))

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