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Last year, I kept having this nagging feeling I was living just for the "me, me, me.” With this in mind, I decided to volunteer to break out of this me-centricity.After reaching out to a number of organizations, I got a call back from a dance studio in New Jersey. On my first day volunteering, a remarkable young girl caught my eye. That girl could dance! Aside from her natural skill, which was a delight to witness, she simply lit up the room. She was African American, ten years old and she wore the more endearing big-rimmed glasses. At the end of class, I had to ask her, “How long have you been taking lessons?” She replied shyly, "I wish... I have never taken a class.” I was speechless.
Her teacher told me she lived in a group home, and then and there I knew what I felt called to do. I called Family Services, started her in dance lessons and trained to become her mentor. Now, for the past year and a half, I’ve seen her every week, taking her to eat, to read, to see movies, and to visit street fairs.
She once told me "No one ever wanted me, I was doomed since my birth." I could only reply, “Honey, you are lovable, worthy and unique. You are stuck with me, and I’m not going anywhere!" We both laughed. I love this kid. I had a great childhood, and I want to pay it forward!
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- Posted by Liliana
- Nov 29, 2013
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Readers Comments
Twinklepoppet wrote: Good for you. I had a lovely childhood too your story makes me want to share all the benefits i gained with others. x
sarita.a.agarwal wrote: Wow! What a way to repay universe for what you have received in abundance
ammi wrote: I am glad that you and this lovely girl found each other and enrich your lives with your delightful connection. I love adopted families because i have always enjoyed being adopted by the many caring strangers who helped me along the way. I consider them my extended open family.
jsmc10 wrote: bless you for doing this, this is so wonderful :)
deactivated wrote: WOW, first of all it was very sweet of u:)))))) u were being a cutie:) for sure the ten year old is really adorable and send our love to her:))))))))))))
Mish wrote: Love can transform, can't it! Blessed be.
